I see the same thing on my server but with almost all delve runs they demand that all whitemages have Arise, All bards have Empy harp, all DD's have delve weapons. I have been booted from parties on my bard cause i don't have a empy harp yet i have capped skills (no spamming required i acutally played the job back in 75 days) I have gotten into arguments with people when i tell them i can give them anysong with a +4 buff on it but they would rather have a bard with just the empy harp over me. This game is becoming to dependent on what gear you have and not how good you are at the job which is rather sad these days.

Also if i am waiting for something to do i watch shouts and if i don't see anything to do and a "help me please" shout comes up, i'm geared and willing to go help. I must have done the LB10 fight about 30 times now.

As the gap between players expand its no wonder more people are quitting the game since you have to have the best to get something done but its the whole thing what came first the delve weapon or the delve weapon NM?

Also anyone on Asura if you need anyhelp with mission fights or level breaks look me up, most the time i can help if i'm in jeuno.