You're still trying to passive-aggressively put words in my mouth, lol. I lead a social shell for a couple years before going into fulltime endgame, and I still keep in touch with the members who still play.
Also, you're an e-girl. The only difference this makes is what pronoun to use. If the lack of the letter S bothers you that much, just sort of mentally edit it in. It's not like anyone would treat you any differently here because of your gender. That would just be sexist.
Edit: Case in point. Ciecle is the biggest noob on the entire server and I still roll with him.