Originally Posted by
Greatguardian
Problems relating to social networking that can be solved by people being mature, intelligent human beings aren't really problems at all.
If someone's kicked from a linkshell for a stupid reason by a stupid sackholder who has stupid amounts of power to abuse, they'd be stupid to care about it. Find a better shell with people who aren't complete troglodytes. Or, in the equally likely case that the person who was kicked was a complete troglodyte, stop being one.
Showing everyone who kicked who doesn't really contribute anything to a mature, intelligent group. Only mature, responsible, intelligent people capable of making kick decisions on their own should even be given linksacks in the first place. They are not a seniority prize, or a "bestest buddy" prize, they are a responsibility. All that should matter is "Well, someone who is responsible enough to know when to kick someone kicked someone." That's that. The absolute worst part of removing anyone from a group is dealing with the whiny, annoying friends who spam leaders demanding individual, detailed explanations that they feel they need to argue with incessantly.
Linkshells are social groups. I can kick you from a social group for whatever reason I want. Maybe I hate all people who have FF7-related names. I don't care how cool and good you are at ff11, I can smash your pearl if your name is cloudxstrife. A linkshell is not a job. There are no employee rights. You can put in work and still be terminated at will. No one owes you a personal explanation.
Finally, and this is especially true of event linkshells, it's 100% possible to still be friends with someone and not allow them in your linkshell. Kicking someone is not always personal or abusive at all. A lot of the time, people who really, really need to be kicked, aren't simply because of the personal backlash that they would incur because they have so many friends in the linkshell. Thankfully, some genius somewhere invented the miracle known as skype. Make a group chat and you basically have your own mini-linkshell chat that works in and outside of the game. And guess what? Being in a skype group doesn't entitle someone to rewards from a group that they are not adequately contributing to, or the ability to participate in group events that they tend to make significantly more difficult. Win-Win.