High packet loss and slow load times

[Xaysen]

Yeah there always seems to be high packet loss regardless of what I'm using. The only difference is there seems to be more on my actual ethernet connection to the servers. As long as I'm on a VPN tho I don't have the freezing for 10 second slideshow chaos that happens on my regular connection. Its likely there is always going to be some packet loss regardless of what is used however it seems for some special players like us there is more on our routes that is causing issues to appear in game compared to most of the population.

Here's my actual connection with pingplotter, I omitted the first few hops for privacy reasons but there is no packet loss on the first four hops.
https://imgur.com/a/6HP15gd

You can see theres a string of NTT servers that smack me with packetloss right in a row. 3.8%, 32.4%, 56.7%, 55.0%, and another 77.7% right before the server.

Any VPN location will give me less than that but I think since I reached a certain threshold in PL in the duration of the trip its causing me to see issues but I'm no expert haha.