So this game has dps checks but we can't talk about our dps in game?

[van_arn]

You can talk about it without pointing fingers.

This. You can say “wow I did 1k less than I normally do” but not “you did 1k less than you normally do.”

Unless you file a report on yourself, I guess. Someone else needs to report you for harassment, and they need to be the target of it.