I am not going get into arguments about what playstyle is better or that i play less than 50 hours a week that i should not be able to do this or that but i want give an example of my playstyle.
I am on at end of weekends and start of week and cant come on the busy saturday when the game is probley its most active.
I am a casual minded player , i like to do the story quests and make progress in them and i dont like grind unless its fun grind.
There is a difference to me on that issue but wont expand on it too much and not talking only about leveling ,waiting for a nm monster to pop is not at a certain point fun, but that my ff11 experience not 14.

Maybe there should be some hardcore endgame event like dynamis for some players but i hope it like some side event that not important to the main story of the game, i know i would not do it if it anything like how dynamis works.

I played ff11 a long time before 14 and never once did salvage, assualt, einherjar, limbus,znm did very very limited dynamis ,bcnm,enm,moblin maze, isnm, bastillia and brenner (the last two where fun but the community died quickly for these two) abyssea i only used for leveling and could not make progress with it for anything else.
The events i did the most in ff11 was besiged and campaign.

So i sound quiet a casual player except there another side , i one of only a few players probley that have climbed castle zvahl baileys in the wing of goddess area to finish of the bastok mainline quest series in wings of the goddess.
I started cop in 2003 and finished it last year. Atm i am not currently active on final fantasy 11 but its been an amazing game over years i played it.
My wish for 14 is a more accessible game than 11 was.