If a GM or Forum Moderator reads this thing, I would like to note that I only disabled "Microsoft Device Association Root Enumerator" (device manager> software devices) for one of my machines on the network/homegroup. We haven't noticed it on any of the machines since the change on the one device. So I don't know if it was the latest patch or my change, nothing has changed locally as far as network configuration, hardware, or software... so ya anyway I don't get it, but this seems to have worked. Anyway Maybe that information could help.
We could very well, just be AFK while it is happening, but after extensive playing on both and not noticing it for an almost solid 3 days, I'm just going to call this solved. If it pops up again with this configuration, I'll make a new thread with a link to this one. Thanks to everyone that responded.