That's like... on the level of why I can't get an invite for a Seph EX or a Thordan EX party - despite knowing the entire fights, no one will invite me because I've never pulled a clear.

Speed runs are one thing - if one person wants to blaze thru it and throw caution to the wind, you should find other people who are onboard with it. Otherwise, I am not onboard with being forced to go quick because someone wants to speed run something. I feel it creates a negative experience with other people in PUGs that are there and want to accomplish it at a normal pace.

I heal at a pretty good, quick pace. But when someone goes in half-cocked before a ready check or before everyone's in the room prior to pull, it stresses me out because I want to be sure mechanics are followed (not skipped because it doesn't always happen) and that I can heal everyone as quick as I am able to. When I get into a PUG Ravana EX and I am told we're skipping adds and the DPS doesn't check - it's a wipe. Who gets blamed? DPS? Healer? It's stressful! It's not what I signed up for.

Anyways, I'm ranting -_-;;