My confession of the day is that it kind of enrages me when I play DPS for a change and witness the healer allowing party members to die in completely normal and manageable situations.

Sometimes the healer acknowledges that they made a mistake and are learning the role, and I'm immediately empathetic. However, sometimes they are just plain bad with no obvious reason, and I bite my proverbial tongue so as not to prolong the pain longer than necessary with an argument about their badness.

I run into this a lot in PoD where even players who obviously play lvl 60 healers outside of PoD seem to have no clue how to function. They either tunnel vision DPS or overheal like crazy, not having gotten the memo that it is entirely possible to walk and chew gum simultaneously.