Honesltly, I hope you're not insinuating that I'm selfish.

Once in Levi EX, I greeded the bard bow (the only Levi weapon I have is the scholar book). One other person (the person who had formed the party as a FARMING party) also greeded the bard bow. Everyone else passed.

They started crying that they really needed the bow because that was the very last Levi weapon they needed. Being a nice person, I left the instance so they could win it. Turns out as soon as they won it, they left their own farming party immediately (after one run).

So, again, who exactly are you calling selfish? Because, unfortunatly, that quickly taught me being nice to people gets you nowhere sometime.