Strangers everywhere u go

[PArcher]

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Last I ran with the OP (a week or two ago)...nope, no change. Still had Tank accessories on, and, TBH...healing was sub-par, at best (even factoring in the tank accessories and full-VIT build). (EDIT: even today you still have it. Loadstone doesn't lie.)

I don't have any questions why the OP can't find a group to run with. At all. He needs to change. A lot. Until he does, he'll keep getting "thrown to the side" for better players.

Drop the tank-WHM "thing" you insist on. ASAP. Stop thinking you're a hero for doing it and play your job right. You're only gimping yourself and your party, and will never find a group to play with if you insist on this "build". Never. I doubt you'll be able to clear T5 without the full Echo buff (and even then, with the insta-kill mechanics you'll still die without learning the fight instead of trying to tank everything) and completely forget about doing Coil2.