Strangers everywhere u go

[Kuwagami]

I wish we could help you find a family
I had a similar story, yet with a happy end. I went here and there between FCs falling apart and big trusts only interested in big numbers...

And then one day a random guy wanted to teach me and a few newbs how to do the Coil. We stuck together for quite a long time and decided to form a LS for european players in Balmung (which fell due to no activity outside Coil) with a core group united under the same FC flag.

We then gained a couple members, awesome people, and are trying to provide our friends (note : we do not consider our mates as FC members. we are a family) all that they need, and now we achieved to be a 11 players wide family (with a few bastard children who joined other FCs ^^) , having fun together and always up for a silly thing (last in date, we decided to go full naked tank in sapstacha. was fun ).


I really gope you find such a family soon Yumi. A crazy tanky healer like you definitively deserves it !

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Somehow, I find that a bit mean. Why should she change herself ? Therr is no problem with a tanky healer as long as the job is done. and friendly people are more important than anything.

[Illya]

Somehow, I find that a bit mean. Why should she change herself ? Therr is no problem with a tanky healer as long as the job is done. and friendly people are more important than anything.

I'm not trying to be mean, but I will say this about friendly people. Friendly people stop being friendly when you can't clear content with them in MMOs. This is why a lot of people aren't very nice in pugs, and it's why many people refuse to pug content in MMOs. I know, life isn't fair. But ultimately MMOs are a team game and if you refuse to do what works best for the team such as spec for healing on a WHM it's going to be hard to make friends, especially if you refuse to join a static group or smaller FC where you can be tight with your people and play around with unorthodox builds. You won't make many friends if you go into a pug instance as a WHM with 30 VIT + VIT gear and confuse the people who are just there trying to clear the stupid fight.

[Luxx]

You won't make many friends if you go into a pug instance as a WHM with 30 VIT + VIT gear and confuse the people who are just there trying to clear the stupid fight.

kinda sad how this game is very straight line and you cannot do anything else with your class than intended.
afaik, wasnt ninja not a tank class in ffxi? but worked as such anyways so ppl just stuck to it.
you have very littly variety in this game to go off course.
im waiting to see a PLD tank, and a WAR dps and see how that goes since lots of ppl though
MRD/WAR was a DPS back in the day xD

[Illya]

kinda sad how this game is very straight line and you cannot do anything else with your class than intended.
afaik, wasnt ninja not a tank class in ffxi? but worked as such anyways so ppl just stuck to it.
you have very littly variety in this game to go off course.
im waiting to see a PLD tank, and a WAR dps and see how that goes since lots of ppl though
MRD/WAR was a DPS back in the day xD

I do agree this game lacks variety and flexibility in viable builds. But it is how they designed it. After the hot mess of 1.0 I can see why they decided to be more straightforward, even too restrictive in build options. But you have to play the game as it was designed, that's all there is to it. If you are looking for a game where you can mess around with random builds all day, Diablo III is pretty good these days after the Reaper of Souls expansion.