Strangers everywhere u go

[Illya]

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

[Zhi]

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Oh snap. Dis gon be good

[AiChyan]

Oh snap. Dis gon be good

[Pyreflye]

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Just read all the pages.

This was easily the highlight.

Lol u should have seen when i let the other ilvl 80 something healer take a dirt nap for the whole fight. So hilarious, because the other healer to no avail is forced to be carried.

[AiChyan]

Just read all the pages.

This was easily the highlight.

Many of the posts in OP's history makes you fully understand why they struggle to make "friends" in game.

[Taruranto]

Just read all the pages.

This was easily the highlight.

And she still doesn't have swiftcast...

Yeah OP, I'm gonna side with "everyone else". I wouldn't never trust you to heal with me major fights.

[PArcher]

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Last I ran with the OP (a week or two ago)...nope, no change. Still had Tank accessories on, and, TBH...healing was sub-par, at best (even factoring in the tank accessories and full-VIT build). (EDIT: even today you still have it. Loadstone doesn't lie.)

I don't have any questions why the OP can't find a group to run with. At all. He needs to change. A lot. Until he does, he'll keep getting "thrown to the side" for better players.

Drop the tank-WHM "thing" you insist on. ASAP. Stop thinking you're a hero for doing it and play your job right. You're only gimping yourself and your party, and will never find a group to play with if you insist on this "build". Never. I doubt you'll be able to clear T5 without the full Echo buff (and even then, with the insta-kill mechanics you'll still die without learning the fight instead of trying to tank everything) and completely forget about doing Coil2.

[Kuwagami]

I wish we could help you find a family
I had a similar story, yet with a happy end. I went here and there between FCs falling apart and big trusts only interested in big numbers...

And then one day a random guy wanted to teach me and a few newbs how to do the Coil. We stuck together for quite a long time and decided to form a LS for european players in Balmung (which fell due to no activity outside Coil) with a core group united under the same FC flag.

We then gained a couple members, awesome people, and are trying to provide our friends (note : we do not consider our mates as FC members. we are a family) all that they need, and now we achieved to be a 11 players wide family (with a few bastard children who joined other FCs ^^) , having fun together and always up for a silly thing (last in date, we decided to go full naked tank in sapstacha. was fun ).


I really gope you find such a family soon Yumi. A crazy tanky healer like you definitively deserves it !

I'm only mildly curious, but have you changed at all from the person who made this thread:
http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...-tanky-healers

If not then you should change yourself first, and then look for a nice FC to join after.

Somehow, I find that a bit mean. Why should she change herself ? Therr is no problem with a tanky healer as long as the job is done. and friendly people are more important than anything.

[Illya]

Somehow, I find that a bit mean. Why should she change herself ? Therr is no problem with a tanky healer as long as the job is done. and friendly people are more important than anything.

I'm not trying to be mean, but I will say this about friendly people. Friendly people stop being friendly when you can't clear content with them in MMOs. This is why a lot of people aren't very nice in pugs, and it's why many people refuse to pug content in MMOs. I know, life isn't fair. But ultimately MMOs are a team game and if you refuse to do what works best for the team such as spec for healing on a WHM it's going to be hard to make friends, especially if you refuse to join a static group or smaller FC where you can be tight with your people and play around with unorthodox builds. You won't make many friends if you go into a pug instance as a WHM with 30 VIT + VIT gear and confuse the people who are just there trying to clear the stupid fight.