In a vote kick side story...
Last night thought I would run low level roulette.
Got in I was the only one who had done it before, not an issue everyone's gotta start somewhere,
So since tank said first time tanking, I tried to help them , marking mobs for kill order (always ignored) placing marker where to pull the pirate guy to second time to where the adds came out (ignored) killing clams before the shades (ignored)
So just after the guy runs off the second time tank said in party "don't tell me what to do I'm in charge in the tank"
I replied I'm just trying to help because I know how daunting a dungeon can be first time around.
Then I got kicked...

I know different from what the OP is on about tho that is an issue but saves making another vote kicked post.