I have 7+ years experience in MMO's. Not every gamer is raid efficient or even interested in long term end game raiding. Some like to try and get a feel for it. Everyone including myself has a learning curve. For me Titan HM has been a bane. I have studied both visual and written guides on the pattern used in the fight. Only now is it sinking in. It's not from a lack of trying to learn it but I rarely run it to begin with so some information doesn't stick. As the saying goes: Don't use it you lose it. In every other MMO I have played I have always played a tank as main. Not so here. I have a lvl 50 Warrior but I have gotten so used to having such high health in other games that this was a bit of a "culture shock" to me. My Warden from lotro has 18k+ health in tank stance. I could take any hit. Here tanking is way too mobile for me. Not that I don't try. Actually giving it another chance. But I prefer healing/dps in ffxiv. People have to learn at their own pace. It's a game lol.