Hate isnt a problem and DPSing isnt our first duty, so i suggest you to go full VIT.

Once you get rich enough to afford HQ crafted gear and geared enough (AF2 or allagan) to have more HP than you will ever need you might trade VIT for STR and/or DEX.

http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...zation-for-WAR.