people being verry rude in LFD

guys srsly i joined 4 lvl 50dungeons as i just turned level 50 and not fully ilvl 60 or higher i get allot of rude gestures up my way, people laughing with me because i'm a 'noob' and don't have the gear people who or totaly in love with them selves it's sad to say that i enjoyed the game soo much till i reached 50 and people start to be verry rude and unrespectfull for people that or running a dungeon for the first time etc... i also pay for the game and want to have lots of fun on it and not a headache because of those things, so this is to all such players that or full of themselves, plz be respectfull and give some guys a hand and some info instead of treathing them as durt, because people will stop playing because of that. Srr for my bad english and thx for your time

No worries, these rude people won't survive at here for very long.

This is sad true , same was for me after reached 50 was 1st time ever saw scums/rudeboys not to only me but for every single member in party

Noticed the same thing.
More than in other MMOs. I made a lot of reports.
And it's strange, because in the beta everyone was nice.

The funny thing about all this people rushing for gear is that, after the darklight and because of the Myth cap, they are basically stuck, with only Coil to do.

What are you running for? There is nothing to do basically XD

don't choose English language when doing DF, choose Japanese most of the time they are kind and willing to teach you if they can speak english

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Originally Posted by Cairn

No worries, these rude people won't survive at here for very long.

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Oh i hope you are right!

If you are new to an instance then say so right away. If someone wants to leave, fine its up to them. Just find someone else, next person most likely will not mind. in fact if you say you arr new then people tend to take responsibility and explain mechanics etc. Just be a good listener, do your best. But don't come undergeared to what is required to finish the instance as in too low weapon to dps checks etc.
My 2c

Still only met one tool in game so far and it was some douche in a CM run others been great.

If some ranged/healer is new to AK I just mark my self and tell them to follow me at Wall and Last boss and explain why they need to.
Never seen the point to be rude against others for no other reason that they maybe play less then me and don't had time to get same items.

It doesn't really matter if you have basic AF or not. Joined a CM party 2 days ago as my PLD with full darlight and Curt, was still getting harassment from peeps in AF telling me I sucked and had no life for having a relic. Rude ppl will still be rude regardless.

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It doesn't really matter if you have basic AF or not. Joined a CM party 2 days ago as my PLD with full darlight and Curt, was still getting harassment from peeps in AF telling me I sucked and had no life for having a relic. Rude ppl will still be rude regardless.

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Hahaha sorry but that is so retarded. People playing a game actively discouraging advancement. Don't worry man they were just jealous and looking for excuses.

Rude people are so sad... I just met one as well in Wanderer's Palace. At King, he started saying I couldn't even handle 3 stacks of Grudge, as a tank, even though I had been the entire time. And finally he gave it the 4th and 5th, we wiped, he called us noobs, and left... Just before that, I told him I could easilly handle 3, and that it was the small ones that reached me, and killed me. He totally ignored that. Then the ranting started...

This game is still basically free to play. But you are always going to come up double zero at least once a night if you go into full DF parties. The anonymity of that situation just encourages people to be cruel.

Just report them.

If reporting them makes you feel better. But it is unlikely that any sort of action will be taken against them.

These same rude people are the ones who really pushed the issue that got the ability to do WP and AK speed runs removed from game (yes it was part it wasn't planned to be done this way, but a large part was the horrible treatment of newer 50's who didnt know the fights). These are the same people who are likely soon going to have CM changed in a similar way.

The way I see it, they will be the people who are going to force SE to add cross server blacklists and a vote kick, and until these functions are added and there is some type of punishment for acting like an a$$hat to others, many people will do it simply because they can and there is no down side. Oh your going to be that way, well blacklist (lossing the ability to run with those players again, minor but in some cases over time could be problematic) and kicked form the dungeon run (wasted time, no loot, no rewarded tomestones and likely a lockout from the DF, minor but enough to mkae many of the a$$hats we been seeing keep some stuff to themselves)

This is not somethign specific to lv50 also. Lastnight I ran Sasnasha (sp?) on my lancer as I need to get him leveled for blood for blood for my bard, and we had tank/healer who where on their first jobs and not that experienced skilled and some archer (guy has 2 classes lv40) and he was a total a$$hat to the other two, pulling and kiting everything around everywhere, getting pissed we didn't skip mobs in the leveling dungeon that give great exp, wouldn't give them any advice and flipped out when I told the tank that he shouldn't run around trying to take mobs back if the archer wanted to pull and tank because the archer needed to learn his role in the group and dieing is the only way it was going to happen (DPS pull hate they take mob to the tank not run around, still DPSing, making it near impossible to have the tank get it back).

These people are common in MMOs.

I think they will move on eventually, my suggestion is to ignore them and be above them. I have helped so many new tanks when I'm leveling my TMG or ARC or show DPS how the threat meter works. Sometimes I run into aholes and I deal with it unless I'm running as a tank then I make their life unpleasent.

Everybody needs to have a thicker skin because the success of this game is going to be on the helpful decent players and not the epeen players who will move on in a few months. Honestly they will be less for a few months because they will be playing GTA V.

best way to solve this is to join a FC and run Duengons with them. Most FC out there are very respectible and are not rude to others or to their own members

Welcome to the internet, my suggestion would be joining a nice FC and not pugging things.

The XI community was so good, but that is probably because it wasn't a hugely mainstream attraction. It didn't bring in all the CoD / Halo / WoW kids like XIV has. Now we have to deal with every 15 year old with a chip on their shoulder. Just report them. SE has a great track record of banning offensive players (even for relatively minor abuses).

Duty Finder sucks, I've stopped doing anything but the simplest stuff in DF. (CM, etc)

I don't have a solid FC currently, but shout groups on Excal are 900x better. Very few leeches, and much less jerks.

Of course, seems like the jerks are always the one standing in the most red, healing the least, and doing the least dmg, go figure.

I'll be so glad when a parser becomes standard with the open API.

Yeah, I agree.
Yesterday I did CM, said that it was first time, and I got locked out of almost 1/2 the bosses because I was in cs when they ran off and attacked. I would take aggro right after cs ends to my healers saying "LOLcancer lancer" like it's my fault I was locked out... That pretty much went on the entire time until after Janus was killed. Afterwards though, an awesome PLD just told me to ignore them and I did great. (If he reads this, thanks :D)

Also this morning I tried doing AK for twin adders and after 3 attempts just quit to level CRP. I would say up front that it was my first time and either the tank or healer would say '???? you noob stop ruining ????' JUST after zone in, the barrier hasn't even dropped yet. The healers wouldn't heal me when we did actually continue on (still haven't gotten to 1st boss though) and the tank would let me hold aggro, and when I died he replied 'well if you weren't a ????ing noob I would have helped'. Better luck next time I guess...

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The XI community was so good, but that is probably because it wasn't a hugely mainstream attraction. It didn't bring in all the CoD / Halo / WoW kids like XIV has. Now we have to deal with every 15 year old with a chip on their shoulder. Just report them. SE has a great track record of banning offensive players (even for relatively minor abuses).

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Exactly.


But I think that this sort of people will be the first ones to leave the game for something else, if we're lucky.

:( Ugh. With all these awful stories, I'm beginning to think I will NEVER again select English as an option in the DF.

The community is getting over run by people coming from other MMO's and the communities they are coming from are much different from Final Fantasy. The FF community will weed these people out to the point where they either fall in line or people just won't play with them anymore. Hopefully these people will fall in line or go back to whatever MMO they came from...

This is becoming a Constant issue. One asked arOund and read up online for AK abOut tacTics and gear. But when I get in AK I get ripped apart for it. I'm a quick learner n skilled player. When I ran ifrit hm/chimera I never died, where almost full darklight gear people were. Getting tired of this noob crap. I help new dungeon/instance players. Explain. I usually ask first, any new players here? As in a few instances I've recieved same treatment. But AK Just seems to bRing out the elitists at full force imo