Originally Posted by
Hunky
Unfortunately, "waifu" races (in this case, Miqo'te, Au Ra, and Viera) have a stereotype of being mostly played by socially-challenged "neckbeards".
The idea is that if you run into a female character in a skimpy outfit, it's likely a rude and slobbish guy who's playing it.
Of course that's just a stereotype. It doesn't necessarily explain why you've encountered rude "waifu" characters.
It could also be the fact that catgirls are so crazy popular and numerous that you're bound to run into many personality types. According to the June 2019 census, there were more catgirls than hyur girls, lalafell girls, elezen girls, and roegadyn girls combined! That's a lot of cat girls, which means all kinds of people play it; whereas other less popular races might appeal to certain smaller crowds.
I will say this though. The few female roegadyn players I met were all actually played by women. And roegadyn players (both men and women) that I've met have generally been polite and social.
But in the end, it's never good to generalize. There will always be exceptions.