Asking for well wishes

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08-07-2018, 07:36 AM
KaivaC

Asking for well wishes

Well... I find myself in a position where I'd like to ask for some good wishes. This has little to do with FFXIV, other than I'm a dedicated player. I dunno if this will work, but I'll ask anyways. From one player to the community, please send well wishes/prayers/luck my way.

Again, I have to step away from ffxiv, but this time, I'm in the midst of a custody battle that turned criminal just a few hours ago. I dunno what to do with myself other than to keep fighting. Forget Kaiva, saving my kids from the situation they got trapped in is my only priority.

Hope all goes well. See ya when this is over, OF community.
08-07-2018, 07:56 AM
CainCrimson

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Originally Posted by KaivaC

Well... I find myself in a position where I'd like to ask for some good wishes. This has little to do with FFXIV, other than I'm a dedicated player. I dunno if this will work, but I'll ask anyways. From one player to the community, please send well wishes/prayers/luck my way.

Again, I have to step away from ffxiv, but this time, I'm in the midst of a custody battle that turned criminal just a few hours ago. I dunno what to do with myself other than to keep fighting. Forget Kaiva, saving my kids from the situation they got trapped in is my only priority.

Hope all goes well. See ya when this is over, OF community.

Good luck to you and your family.
08-07-2018, 08:44 AM
Dualgunner

Take care of yourself, and good luck getting your kids back.
08-07-2018, 08:53 AM
Sprinks

As a mommy-to-be, I can't imagine what you're going through. Good luck to you and your kids. I wish you all the best.
08-07-2018, 08:56 AM
Awha

I am confused, is this a new form of bait? Not trying to be a dick or anything just confused as to what this has to be with FFXIV. Isn't this something one normally brings up with close friends or family?
08-07-2018, 09:09 AM
Musashidon

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Originally Posted by Awha

I am confused, is this a new form of bait? Not trying to be a dick or anything just confused as to what this has to be with FFXIV. Isn't this something one normally brings up with close friends or family?

not in this day in age its all about telling everyone everywhere your baggage.
08-07-2018, 09:15 AM
Rhus

Hopefully all is well with your family and we will see you bacK
08-07-2018, 09:15 AM
Sigma-Astra

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Originally Posted by Awha

I am confused, is this a new form of bait? Not trying to be a dick or anything just confused as to what this has to be with FFXIV. Isn't this something one normally brings up with close friends or family?

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Originally Posted by Musashidon

not in this day in age its all about telling everyone everywhere your baggage.

I'm not sure why it's considered a sin if someone wants to embrace and ask the gaming community that they play with for support and warm wishes. Yes, you're not trying to be a butt. But, you're still coming across as one by acting insensitive. I swear, empathy and sympathy are lost arts these days, as well as tact.

Literally, if you have nothing nice to say about the situation, then don't post at all.

This is why we get the negative "nice community" memes sometimes.

Good luck with your family, Kaiva. XIV will always be here when you get back, it's not going anywhere.
08-07-2018, 09:17 AM
NessaWyvern

Goodluck Kaiva, I hope everything works out, and you get your kids back safe and sound.
08-07-2018, 09:20 AM
MomomiMomi

Good luck Mommy or Daddy.
08-07-2018, 09:51 AM
Awha

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Originally Posted by Sigma-Astra

I'm not sure why it's considered a sin if someone wants to embrace and ask the gaming community that they play with for support and warm wishes. Yes, you're not trying to be a butt. But, you're still coming across as one by acting insensitive.

Literally, if you have nothing nice to say about the situation, then don't post at all.

This is why we get the negative "nice community" memes sometimes.

Good luck with your family, Kaiva. XIV will always be here when you get back, it's not going anywhere.

Might be the cynic in me I just found it odd as to why someone would legitimately ask to what will mostly amount to empty platitudes regarding a personal matter. I mean let us imagine if everyone made a post asking for well wishes for every hardship they may be currently going through, am I really the only one who finds that odd? That is why I got confused. Either way moving on, sorry about that.
08-07-2018, 10:01 AM
NessaWyvern

If it was just some rando suddenly saying this, I would be a cynic too, but OP is a forum regular letting everyone know that they won't be here for a bit, why they won't be here, and politely asking for well wishes. Kavia gets a pass :P
08-07-2018, 10:02 AM
Sigma-Astra

Quote:

Originally Posted by Awha

Might be the cynic in me I just found it odd as to why someone would legitimately ask to what will mostly amount to empty platitudes regarding a personal matter. I mean let us imagine if everyone made a post asking for well wishes for every hardship they may be currently going through, am I really the only one who finds that odd? That is why I got confused. Either way moving on, sorry about that.

I'm not sure what there is to be confused about in all honesty, personally speaking. I'm cynical too and my whole life revolves around me being jaded towards other people because of the situations I've been in.

Still, cynicism or not, there's nothing confusing about someone requesting sympathy from others and expecting it in return from a bunch of strangers on the internet regardless if its here or a place like Facebook. That's called still being human.
08-07-2018, 10:40 AM
laurtias

Oh man Kaiva, can't even imagine... Sending well-wishes and prayers your way. Hope to one day read that things turned out as well as they could.
08-07-2018, 10:45 AM
jameseoakes

Quote:

Originally Posted by KaivaC

Well... I find myself in a position where I'd like to ask for some good wishes. This has little to do with FFXIV, other than I'm a dedicated player. I dunno if this will work, but I'll ask anyways. From one player to the community, please send well wishes/prayers/luck my way.

Again, I have to step away from ffxiv, but this time, I'm in the midst of a custody battle that turned criminal just a few hours ago. I dunno what to do with myself other than to keep fighting. Forget Kaiva, saving my kids from the situation they got trapped in is my only priority.

Hope all goes well. See ya when this is over, OF community.

I'm really sorry to hear that your going through so much Kaiva, Good luck getting this horrible situation sorted out. I hope we will see you back soon.
08-07-2018, 01:55 PM
GetFoesReqd

You got it. Thoughts, prayers, and positivity. I hope it ends well for you and yours.
08-07-2018, 02:23 PM
Jkap_Goat

I hope everything works in your favor! Hoping for good things for you
08-07-2018, 02:53 PM
Skivvy

I hope it ends best for the kids.
08-07-2018, 03:16 PM
Gemina

Tis always a sad day when the community loses one of its dedicated. All I can say is best of luck and come back to us soon.
08-07-2018, 03:41 PM
BillyKaplan

Hopefully this will be resolved soon and you and yours find the peace you deserve. Hang in there, Kaiva ♥
08-07-2018, 04:14 PM
Celef

Always in for sending good vibes !
https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=...33712476291852
08-07-2018, 08:42 PM
Sebazy

Best of luck, I hooe things work out for both you and your family as a whole <3
08-08-2018, 01:20 AM
Stormfur

*vigorously shakes voodoo chicken feet*

I hope everything works out!
08-08-2018, 03:34 AM
Emdub

Greetings,

Although we can appreciate the reasoning as well as the emotions involved with this request, sadly, we must close this thread due to it being off topic.

We do, however, wish you the best during these daunting and stressful times.

Thank you for your understanding. We apologize for any inconvenience this may cause.

-=Senior Game Master Emdub=-