Everyone really hates me for not be the best player

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I'm not really feeling a report, have a hug instead =(

<3

Just have fun and don't listen to those here on the forum. I know I don't.

Before someone else bothers responding to them...

Definitely a troll.

Is this the real life?

Do whatever is best for ya is all I can say...

All you need to do is check that person's posting history to see that its a troll and an attention seeker.

Assuming not trolling:

I think you might be making a mountain out of a mole hill here. If you caused a wipe and someone yelled at you, that sucks, but it doesn't mean you're now fated to always cause wipes. Learn what you did wrong and figure out how you can stop doing it. An example: You say you have mana problems on DRK, have you tried using Blood Price for trash pulls and Blood Weapon + Blood Price on bosses? If you're not prepared to drop Grit just yet, then Blood Price would be enough as long as you don't go absolutely insane on DA Soul Eater usage. If you're getting low on MP and Blood Price has run out or is about to, then just be aware of that and don't dump your MP on anything that'll cause you to drop Darkside until you can use BP again.

Any problem you have can be solved and if, in the end, you decide you can't be bothered or just don't have fun improving, then you can always play another game or even just stick to casual stuff in this game like crafting or RP or w/e.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Well FFXIV community really hates me now when i said that i have mana management issue as DRK and i don't do dps all the time as SCH.

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Hello Yunao o/

If there was a way to privately msg you I would have lol, I hope you don't quit the game though. Honestly it sounds like to me that you love this game and there's just some hiccups here and there. Other people have made some heart filled suggestions already, I recommend stepping away to cool off and then come back to read what people say; afterall there's no growth without first acknowledging the problem which you already did x)

Guys, I just read through 2 pages in another thread discussing with this troll, he posts his pseudo-selfloathing posts, then deletes them right away. Please just ignore him...

Not from Balmung. I'm disappointed. Are you at least a mentor?

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Originally Posted by LittleChickenNugget

Is this the real life?

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Is this just fantasy?

http://i.imgur.com/gAoX6Oy.png

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Originally Posted by whiteblade89

Is this just fantasy?

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Caught in a landslide.

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Originally Posted by Seryne

Caught in a landslide.

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No escape from reality.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Well FFXIV community really hates me now when i said that i have mana management issue as DRK and i don't do dps all the time as SCH.

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Um I dont think anyone hates u but u do keep sayin the samething over and over and not exactly explaining what your having issues with exactly. And even if they did who cares haha i post on here all the time and people have said my post are crazy and stuff all the time just gota tuff it out, not everyone is gona agree with u thats just life

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Then go and tell everyone report me so i get banned from forums fast as possible.

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Or you could just leave of your own accord. That's also an option.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Well FFXIV community really hates me now when i said that i have mana management issue as DRK and i don't do dps all the time as SCH.

When i said no matter how hard i try and how many times i read or watch guides, i just can't able be best player by doing rotations perfectly and using every skill effectively.

And after i said that i can't even beat Alexander - The Cuff of the Son when i always cause wipe they started hate me even more.

Not only everyone hates me in forum they also hates me in-game too for not be best player as tank, dps and healer.

So looks like all i can do now is stop playing FFXIV completely and never play it again when no one wants me do anything in FFXIV.
Also if you guys thing this is stupid thread and that i only seek attention, just report me so i get banned that i can't never post anything in forum.

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Ok I been trying to think of something because I legitimately want you have a better time in the game (assuming you do, as others pointed out you might be doing this to troll) Just in case if you aren't I need to advice you how talk to people. Get a friend or 2 (preferably a healer that you know is skilled) and just have them walk you though it. If you are on dps, you alone can't wipe Alexander - The Cuff of the Son. You have to remember there is 7 other people in your group.

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Originally Posted by Azper

Or you could just leave of your own accord. That's also an option.

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yeah im legitimately confused.

#SpiralingAbyss
#NotLikeThis
#FeelsBadMan

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Also if you guys thing this is stupid thread and that i only seek attention, just report me so i get banned that i can't never post anything in forum.

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This thread hurts my empathetic heart. On one hand it might be a troll but on the other it could just be some upset kid and it makes me sad.

:(

Troll or not, I can relate.

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Originally Posted by MisterLucie

This thread hurts my empathetic heart. On one hand it might be a troll but on the other it could just be some upset kid and it makes me sad.

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99.9% sure he's not a troll or, if he is one, it's actually a really well done troll. I think people just assume it's a troll since... people generally assume anyone's a troll that doesn't sit right them for whatever reason. I really don't see how he could be a troll, he's asking to be banned and genuinely just sounds upset. I can't imagine everyone calling him a troll is helping either which is why I tried to give him some real advice. Hopefully he'll be alright.

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Originally Posted by SpookyGhost

99.9% sure he's not a troll or, if he is one, it's actually a really well done troll. I think people just assume it's a troll since... people generally assume anyone's a troll that doesn't sit right them for whatever reason. I really don't see how he could be a troll, he's asking to be banned and genuinely just sounds upset. Ican't imagine everyone calling him a troll is helping either which is why I tried to give him some real advice. Hopefully he'll be alright.

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I did as well

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Originally Posted by Hamada

Ok I been trying to think of something because I legitimately want you have a better time in the game (assuming you do, as others pointed out you might be doing this to troll) Just in case if you aren't I need to advice you how talk to people. Get a friend or 2 (preferably a healer that you know is skilled) and just have them walk you though it. If you are on dps, you alone can't wipe Alexander - The Cuff of the Son. You have to remember there is 7 other people in your group.



yeah im legitimately confused.

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there was a thread way back, something about people not letting them find silver chests and had no other way getting 235 weapon. I advised them just get the pvp one, it can be done as little as 2 dailies of frontline but said they wouldn't PvP cuz they hate it. This is a strange viewpoint since it is only 2 runs to help them thought the gates in PvE.

Then they talk about how they can't get a12N because they keep causing wipes so i try to advice make a pf and find people that know what they are doing. I just do not understand how someone has so much trouble as I got though it all as alt recently. (5 months ago)

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Originally Posted by Shahdhch

No escape from reality.

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Open your eyes, look up to the sky and seeeeeeee.....

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Then go and tell everyone report me so i get banned from forums fast as possible.

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This really sounds like someone posting on someone else's account, with the intention of getting that account banned.

The victim complex is strong with this one

He/She has dyslexia apparently as cited here (http://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/t...actually-works).
While going through their posts, it seems as though they don't really have as much self-esteem (no offense). Saying similar things like this is a stupid thread/question, then report and etc. I'm pretty sure they are serious about what they say and that he/she's just confused and upset. Just putting in my two cents, I wouldn't know lol.

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Originally Posted by SilkaN

Before someone else bothers responding to them...

Definitely a troll.

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nah, there was definitely people in another thread calling her bad and stupid because she was saying that she's not good at MP management. I felt bad for her, cause all she was doing was saying that she's not the best at her job, but people saw that as an avenue to attack her. It was uncalled for.

Don't think this is troll. Looks like classic depression to me.

I recommend you see a psychiatrist and counselor. No joke, not meant to be offensive. Genuine care of another person. See a doctor. It helps.

At the very least, talk to someone close to you.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Well FFXIV community really hates me now when i said that i have mana management issue as DRK and i don't do dps all the time as SCH.

When i said no matter how hard i try and how many times i read or watch guides, i just can't able be best player by doing rotations perfectly and using every skill effectively.

And after i said that i can't even beat Alexander - The Cuff of the Son when i always cause wipe they started hate me even more....

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You're awesome my man! Don't let "the obsessives" drag you down and play the game how you want with who you want! <3 Some people just care too much if there digital avatar dies! I'd run randoms with you anytime you want on my tank and I'll go all the way to the 50 min timer if that's what it takes to get it down.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

So you are saying that i'm mentally ill?

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Yup, and it's very common. No shame in getting help.

Btw OP, I'd say Anima was totally worth it for the glamour.

http://i.imgur.com/62EL0fs.png

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Originally Posted by SilkaN

Before someone else bothers responding to them...

Definitely a troll.

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Well they definitely have a "woe is me" attitude, but there is a possibility they aren't a troll. I think MomomiMomi might be correct in his/her speculation, but only a professional can make a diagnosis.

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Originally Posted by Hamada

Ok I been trying to think of something because I legitimately want you have a better time in the game (assuming you do, as others pointed out you might be doing this to troll) Just in case if you aren't I need to advice you how talk to people. Get a friend or 2 (preferably a healer that you know is skilled) and just have them walk you though it. If you are on dps, you alone can't wipe Alexander - The Cuff of the Son. You have to remember there is 7 other people in your group.



yeah im legitimately confused.

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Originally Posted by Hamada

I did as well


there was a thread way back, something about people not letting them find silver chests and had no other way getting 235 weapon. I advised them just get the pvp one, it can be done as little as 2 dailies of frontline but said they wouldn't PvP cuz they hate it. This is a strange viewpoint since it is only 2 runs to help them thought the gates in PvE.

Then they talk about how they can't get a12N because they keep causing wipes so i try to advice make a pf and find people that know what they are doing. I just do not understand how someone has so much trouble as I got though it all as alt recently. (5 months ago)

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pokepoke tc^

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

Why i need getting help when I'M NOT F##KING MENTALLY ILL.
So only reason why you said that i'm a "mentally ill" (when i'm not) is becuase you just want me get even more hate in forums and in-game.

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... no she wasn't.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

The reason why i HATE PvP in EVERY MMO is because i don't want get hate for not be good as everyone else is in PvP.

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You do realize that chat is disabled in Feast 8v8, right?

Um, OK, but I'm pretty sure I've made a response or two to your threads and they were only encouraging.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

And like i already said to you in other threads Alexander - The Cuff of the Son is TOO HARD FOR ME, why it's so hard to understand that i'm not GOOD AS YOU who can beat everything easily and don't even try saying "get good" because that is what i'm trying to do all the time.

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Do you have many friends in the game? Easier said than done if you don't, but maybe try to do content with friends who are understanding of your skill level.

Unfortunately you're on a different data center or else I'd offer to join you on something, if you wanted.

Anyway, try to take things easy. There's no need to rush.

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Originally Posted by UNDEAD10000

If you want me answer to this then here you go:

The reason why i HATE PvP in EVERY MMO is because i don't want get hate for not be good as everyone else is in PvP.

And like i already said to you in other threads Alexander - The Cuff of the Son is TOO HARD FOR ME, why it's so hard to understand that i'm not GOOD AS YOU who can beat everything easily and don't even try saying "get good" because that is what i'm trying to do all the time.

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You are not listening to me. People can pass that as 7/8 (meaning you make no difference) quite easily. That is why I said get a friend or two that you can trust to guide you.

Not the first post and it's always the same. Now I know I am not going to win a muffin with that one, but if you think that you're so bad (I can't say you're or you're not, never played with you), why not try to improve? Reading guides or watching some videos only are not going to help,especially if it's the wrong ones, there is much more to that, and if someone really wants to improve there should be a bit more effort then running to the forums, saying I am so bad and I quit and now report me yada yada.

Take a look at your hot bars (clean them up, if it's unorganized and messy)
Are you pushing buttons or are you clicking? (if clicking change that)

Pick a job you like
look up job guides, so you understand why specific skills are used the way they are
look up standard rotation (start with the basics)
go to the dummy anywhere and practice (2+hrs)
look at your numbers
compare the rotations, take a closer look at the mistakes you've made
repeat rotation, this time without looking at your buttons, try to memorize it
feeling comfortable?

aight continue here,
look up the end game rotations
compare it with your rotation prior and figure out why it changed (by now you should know the job you're playing and what the skills are doing)
again practice on a dummy for a while
change the rotation to your own game play if you have too

After you're done with that, pick a dungeon (maybe not the new ones unless you're 100% certain that you know all mechanics in that dungeon with your eyes closed)
run these dungeons multiple times
compare your numbers at the end of every run

If you're not familiar with dungeons/trials/raids, watch the basic guides on youtube, try again.
Rinse and repeat till you're comfortable with a) your job and b) the rotation and c) the instance you're queue'ing up for. Pick next trial/dungeon/raid and continue.

If you do that for a couple of days/weeks, you will see how much of improvement you can accomplish, if you're taking it serious. If not well then I don't think anybody (forum/in game) is able to help you out. sry.

*there's still more to it, however i think that would be a good start.

Actually, I have more to say....

If you honestly think that you're never going to improve no matter how hard you try, just leave the game alone.

Constantly belittling yourself and having this 'woe is me' attitude is not going to get you anywhere. If you carefully look at some of the responses, some were trying to encourage/help you (EX: LunaFaye's post above me), but you immediately ignore them by saying, "I will never be as good as the others no matter how hard I try..." or "you guys hate me" or "report me so I can be banned permanently" I'm sorry, but that kind of self-esteem won't help you improve, it's only going to keep you stuck.

If you really want to be good like the others then get a grip, stop whining, and TRY HARDER. Improving doesn't happen overnight, it takes A LOT of time and you gotta be patient to sharpen your skills. And maybe if you stop having this pity party, others may step up and help you... if you ask for it.

The choice is yours...