Hi Sargatanas.
I'm a WHM. I'm also a 30-something player with a kid who plays fairly casually in terms of pace and belongs to a really small friends & family FC. I didn't have a relic pre-2.1 and started trying to get it the week the patch hit. Initially my latency was getting me hit by landslides and plumes. I forked out for Pingzapper (it works pretty well, BTW! If you're suffering with lag give it a shot and you can use me as a referrer - squidbunny - for a free month) and stopped getting hit by landslides and plumes ... only to realize it didn't really matter as DF groups or groups I was joining or putting together weren't managing to break the heart. Or! If they wiped they tended to fly apart and I was back outside looking for more dudes. It's getting harder and harder to get a group to stay together to try and progress through the fight as everyone's moved on to the Extremes, DF is letting me down when I can get a queue at all, and I've spent countless hours in the DF or the party finder and countless hours wiping to Earthen Fury and I'm getting super, super discouraged. I don't feel like this should be this impossible to get through.
Like I said I don't play as much a lot of people and I'm in a FC with friends so I'm not looking to switch to a bigger, serious FC. I also don't want to (and can't afford to! :p) be carried, per se: I'm in a mix of myth/DL/CT gear -- iLvl 71; not super but adequate to the task -- and I can guarantee my survival through the Heart (can't past that because I've practically never seen it, let alone practice it! ;)).
Can anyone help me out or offer some guidance or encouragement? Sooo hacked off at this fight and feeling increasingly crappy about my lack of a single relic.
