ffxiv not loading need help

Having the same problem
I am having the same problem, the only difference is I have been playing ffxiv since beta and have not had a problem, I also successfully played the game last on May 1st and all of a sudden I cant play.

The system alows me to login and click play but when it tries to go into the screen to select characters it automatically give me a error of
"Final Fantacy has stopped working windows is checking for a solution"

the windows tries to find a solution to the problem and of course does not find one and I get another messege
"A problem caused the program to stop working correctly. Windows will close the program and notify you if a solution is available."
-=-=-=-=-=-=- System Information -=-=-=-=-=-=-

Operating System Microsoft Windows Vista Home Premium Edition Service Pack 2 64bit (build 6002)
Processor Intel(R) Core(TM)2 Duo CPU P8600 @ 2.40GHz
Number of Processors Logical Core Count 2 Physical Core Count 2
BIOS Default System BIOS
Language English (Regional Setting: English)
Physical Memory 6110.020MB
Virtual Memory 2047.875MB
Page File 12377.047MB
Storage C:\ Hard Disk Drive Total Disk Space 451.779GB Free Disk Space 230.553GB
Storage D:\ Hard Disk Drive Total Disk Space 13.979GB Free Disk Space 2.116GB
DirectX Version DirectX 11
Graphic Device(s) NVIDIA GeForce 9600M GT
+Device \\.\DISPLAY1
+Chip GeForce 9600M GT
+Maker NVIDIA
+Video Memory 489.563 MB
+Shared Video Memory 2799.479 MB
+DAC Type Integrated RAMDAC
+Display Mode 1680 x 1050 (32 bit) (60Hz)
+Driver nvd3dumx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvwgf2umx.dll,nvd3dum,nvwgf2um,nvwgf2um
+Driver Version 8.17.0012.7061
+Driver Date 4/8/2011 1:14:00 AM
+Driver Language English
+Vertex Shader 3.0
+Pixel Shader 3.0
+Vertex Texture Supported
Sound Device(s) Speakers and Dual Headphones (IDT High Definition Audio CODEC)
+Device ID {D9B53309-A88C-409F-B0BB-8B519B37088C}
+Device Name stwrt64.sys
+Driver Version 6.10.6087.0000
+Driver Language English
+Driver Date 9/11/2008 7:54:44 AM
Sound Device(s) Independent*Dual Headphones (IDT High Definition Audio CODEC)
+Device ID {05942112-155D-40AE-BDD6-E24AF9E66B3E}
+Device Name stwrt64.sys
+Driver Version 6.10.6087.0000
+Driver Language English
+Driver Date 9/11/2008 7:54:44 AM
Sound Device(s) SPDIF (Digital Out via HP Dock) (IDT High Definition Audio CODEC)
+Device ID {9F530EB3-BA67-43C3-9903-208EB14D1F81}
+Device Name stwrt64.sys
+Driver Version 6.10.6087.0000
+Driver Language English
+Driver Date 9/11/2008 7:54:44 AM
Input Device(s) {6F1D2B60-D5A0-11CF-BFC7444553540000}
+Name Mouse
+Notes Axis 3 Button 5 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {6F1D2B61-D5A0-11CF-BFC7444553540000}
+Name Keyboard
+Notes Axis 0 Button 109 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {F971A4D0-1DA8-11DF-8002444553540000}
+Name Microsoft eHome Infrared Transceiver
+Notes Axis 0 Button 0 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {F9724110-1DA8-11DF-8004444553540000}
+Name Microsoft eHome Infrared Transceiver
+Notes Axis 0 Button 573 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {F9726820-1DA8-11DF-8006444553540000}
+Name Microsoft eHome Infrared Transceiver
+Notes Axis 0 Button 0 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {F9728F30-1DA8-11DF-8008444553540000}
+Name Microsoft eHome Infrared Transceiver
+Notes Axis 0 Button 3 Field of View 0
Input Device(s) {0391FD00-5B08-11E0-8001444553540000}
+Name USB Game Controller
+Notes Axis 4 Button 12 Field of View 1

-=-=-=-=-=-=- Application Information -=-=-=-=-=-=-

Control Panel\System and Maintenance
Event Viewer
FINAL FANTASY XIV, The Lodestone - Windows Internet Explorer
Hotmail - bonelli1@msn.com - Windows Live - Windows Internet Explorer
New user; Program crashes immidiately - Windows Internet Explorer
SQUARE ENIX Support Center - Windows Internet Explorer
-=-=-=-=-=-=- Install Information -=-=-=-=-=-=-
Update for Microsoft Office 2007 (KB2508958)
Acrobat.com
Activation Assistant for the 2007 Microsoft Office suites
ActiveCheck component for HP Active Support Library
Adobe AIR
Adobe Flash Player 10 ActiveX
Adobe Flash Player 10 Plugin
Adobe Reader 9.4.4
Apple Application Support
Apple Software Update
Comcast High-Speed Internet Install Wizard
Compatibility Pack for the 2007 Office system
CyberLink DVD Suite
Download Manager 2.3.10
EA Download Manager
ESU for Microsoft Vista
FINAL FANTASY XI
FINAL FANTASY XI: Chains of Promathia
FINAL FANTASY XI: Rise of the Zilart
FINAL FANTASY XI: Treasures of Aht Urhgan
FINAL FANTASY XI: Wings of the Goddess
FINAL FANTASY XIV
Feedback Tool
Free Window Registry Repair
Guild Wars
HP Active Support Library
HP Customer Experience Enhancements
HP Doc Viewer
HP Help and Support
HP MULTIPLE MODEM INSTALLER for VISTA
HP MediaSmart DVD
HP MediaSmart Music/Photo/Video
HP MediaSmart TV
HP MediaSmart Webcam
HP Quick Launch Buttons
HP Total Care Advisor
HP Update
HP User Guides 0129
HP Wireless Assistant
HPAsset component for HP Active Support Library
HPTCSSetup
Hotfix for Microsoft .NET Framework 3.5 SP1 (KB953595)
Hotfix for Microsoft .NET Framework 3.5 SP1 (KB958484)
IDT Audio
JMicron JMB38X Flash Media Controller
Java Auto Updater
Java(TM) 6 Update 18
Java(TM) 6 Update 24
Java(TM) 6 Update 7
Juno Preloader
LabelPrint
LightScribe System Software 1.14.17.1
MSXML 4.0 SP2 (KB954430)
MSXML 4.0 SP2 (KB973688)
Microsoft Office 2007 Service Pack 2 (SP2)
Microsoft Office Excel MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Office Home and Student 2007
Microsoft Office OneNote MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Office PowerPoint MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Office PowerPoint Viewer 2007 (English)
Microsoft Office Proof (English) 2007
Microsoft Office Proof (French) 2007
Microsoft Office Proof (Spanish) 2007
Microsoft Office Proofing (English) 2007
Microsoft Office Proofing Tools 2007 Service Pack 2 (SP2)
Microsoft Office Shared MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Office Shared Setup Metadata MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Office Word MUI (English) 2007
Microsoft Silverlight
Microsoft Visual C++ 2005 ATL Update kb973923 - x86 8.0.50727.4053
Microsoft Visual C++ 2005 Redistributable
Microsoft Visual C++ 2005 Redistributable - KB2467175
Microsoft WSE 3.0 Runtime
Microsoft Works
Mozilla Firefox (3.6.16)
My HP Games
NVIDIA 3D Vision Controller Driver
NVIDIA PhysX
NetZero Preloader
Neverwinter Nights 2: Platinum
Norton AntiVirus
Norton Utilities
OpenOffice.org 3.2
PlayOnline Viewer & Tetra Master
Power2Go
PowerDirector
QLBCASL
QuickTime
Realtek 8169 8168 8101E 8102E Ethernet Driver
SPORE Creature Creator Trial Edition
Safari
Search Toolbar
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2288621)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2288931)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2345043)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2466156)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2509488)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB969559)
Security Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB976321)
Security Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 3.5 SP1 (KB2416473)
Security Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 4 Client Profile (KB2160841)
Security Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 4 Client Profile (KB2446708)
Security Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 4 Extended (KB2416472)
Security Update for Microsoft Office Excel 2007 (KB2464583)
Security Update for Microsoft Office InfoPath 2007 (KB979441)
Security Update for Microsoft Office PowerPoint 2007 (KB2464594)
Security Update for Microsoft Office PowerPoint Viewer 2007 (KB2464623)
Security Update for Microsoft Office Visio Viewer 2007 (KB973709)
Security Update for Microsoft Office Word 2007 (KB2344993)
Security Update for Microsoft Office system 2007 (972581)
Security Update for Microsoft Office system 2007 (KB974234)
Skype Toolbars
Skype™ 4.2
SlingPlayer
Slingbox - Watch Your TV Anywhere
Steam
System Requirements Lab
System Requirements Lab for Intel
The Sims™ 3
The Sims™ 3 Ambitions
The Sims™ 3 High-End Loft Stuff
The Sims™ 3 Late Night
The Sims™ 3 World Adventures
Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB2284654)
Update for 2007 Microsoft Office System (KB967642)
Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 3.5 SP1 (KB963707)
Update for Microsoft .NET Framework 4 Client Profile (KB2473228)
Update for Microsoft Office 2007 Help for Common Features (KB963673)
Update for Microsoft Office Excel 2007 Help (KB963678)
Update for Microsoft Office OneNote 2007 (KB980729)
Update for Microsoft Office OneNote 2007 Help (KB963670)
Update for Microsoft Office Powerpoint 2007 Help (KB963669)
Update for Microsoft Office Script Editor Help (KB963671)
Update for Microsoft Office Word 2007 Help (KB963665)
Ventrilo Client
World of Warcraft
ffdshow v1.1.3476 [2010-06-15]
muvee Reveal
-=-=-=-=-=-=- Proccess Information -=-=-=-=-=-=-
C:\Program Files (x86)\Common Files\Java\Java Update\jusched.exe 00000E94
C:\Program Files (x86)\Common Files\LightScribe\LightScribeControlPanel.exe 00000C98
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\HP Quick Launch Buttons\QLBCtrl.exe 00000E24
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\HP Wireless Assistant\HPWAMain.exe 00000E3C
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\HP wireless Assistant\WiFiMsg.EXE 00000D4C
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\Shared\hpqToaster.exe 00000BA0
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\TouchSmart\Media\Kernel\CLML\CLMLSvc.exe 00000DFC
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hewlett-Packard\TouchSmart\Media\TSMAgent.exe 00000DF4
C:\Program Files (x86)\Hp\HP Software Update\hpwuschd2.exe 00000E50
C:\Program Files (x86)\Internet Explorer\iexplore.exe 000009F8
C:\Program Files (x86)\SquareEnix\FINAL FANTASY XIV\ffxivconfig.exe 00001014
C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\Steam.exe 00000D24
C:\Program Files (x86)\iTunes\iTunesHelper.exe 00000E84
C:\Windows\SysWOW64\Macromed\Flash\FlashUtil10p_ActiveX.exe 00000F60

What steps have you taken to try to resolve this issue? Can you think back to earlier in the week and remember any setting on your computer that you may have changed?

Make sure your FFXIV game resolution matches your actual screen resolution

Try playing in both fullscreen and windowed mode

Try lowering your FFXIV graphics settings

Uninstall your video drivers, run driversweeper, then install the latest driver package from Nvidia.

Since you're walking the line of minimum required specifications for the game (mainly the video card), it's actually fairly common for an FFXIV update to result in this problem.. I've seen it before. That's not your fault, but it's something to keep in mind.