Post about me, just want to breathe out ( read if you want ) :)

Helluuuu friends, i try join fcs and groups I dont know why i leave.

I just want make friends Thank you :)

I think it depends a lot on the FC you're in - if they're chatty and friendly, you can 'listen' and occasionally comment if you have something to add, or vent if you've just had a frustrating dungeon experience, or respond if someone asks if anyone wants to do roulettes with them. And slowly you just get to know those people, and they get to know you.

I remember you'd responded to the post for the Ohana linkshell on Typhon - if you do have a decent connection for the JP data centre, they are a really lovely group of people. I was fortunate to get invited to one of the FCs very early in my FFXIV experience, and they've been great.

Helluuuu and yes

Meaningful friendships take time and effort. Send /tells to people in your FC. Be open and honest. Be involved or create conversations that aren't just game based.

Also as you seem to have broken English maybe search for someone that is in your native language.

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Originally Posted by Araminta

Meaningful friendships take time and effort. Send /tells to people in your FC. Be open and honest. Be involved or create conversations that aren't just game based.

Also as you seem to have broken English maybe search for someone that is in your native language.

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Helluuuu Amarita

Making friendships is a really difficult thing to do, and it takes a lot of tries to finally find one that can be fulfilling to both people involved for some. I personally think it goes beyond just asking people to run dungeons together from time to time, or speaking actively in FC chat.


The easiest way I’ve found to make friends in this game is to find people that have mutual interests—a lot of my friends are into raiding, for example; or they play BRD, so we can relate there. Some like to farm EX primals; some like to queue in randomly to content for fun (e.g., my best friend and I like to do random Raid Roulettes late at night to see if we get any fun parties, or just to get some of the Alexander floors again—I also have a friend who likes to run Orbonne Monastery with me just to see if we get that meme party). The more you have in common with someone, the easier it will be for you to become friends with them. Especially in the context of playing a video game together—enjoying the same types of content means that you’ll have more opportunities to play together.

That being said, though friendships take a lot of effort to find and maintain, if they are meant to happen, they will happen. You cannot force a friendship with someone; some people make better acquaintances than they do friends, and some people are better to just let go. So one really has to find a balance between actively trying to form friendships through doing stuff together with a person, and also allowing the friendship to flourish naturally and not in a forced way.


All you can do is keep trying. Eventually, I’m sure you’ll find a person that you can call a good friend. :)

Hi, I’m on Lich and have been in a FC for a while and have made friends there who I do roulette and other stuff with.

Also I picked up quite a few friends doing Savage in PF.

So it definitely can be done, it just takes time.

Helluuu support ♥
Yes stay positive :)