Post about me, just want to breathe out ( read if you want ) :)

[Ssmiley_Bjakkzz]

First i say thanks for care to read, means alot even if you read this thousand times similar elsewhere, just i am sadly left out how to solved this so if you awesome tell me the recipe to fix this!

So ive been playing this lovely game a HUGE long time now these years in up and down moments and still love the world of Eorzea but...

I came a cross these times that i cant make out friendships with anyone how much i try get along for join a fc community or groups in general for just get a chance to tag along players to enjoy experience this game together with me like in the past years i had no problems at all with this.

How that has changed, I dont know, ive tried to figure this out by myself i even posted on others friends/marriage threads for all kinds of chances, im very social and not shy at all... im just tired to log on and always being solo player in a MMO all these times i also must say im embarrassed to make this thread ha ha...

I just want able to make friends Thank you

[Iscah]

I think it depends a lot on the FC you're in - if they're chatty and friendly, you can 'listen' and occasionally comment if you have something to add, or vent if you've just had a frustrating dungeon experience, or respond if someone asks if anyone wants to do roulettes with them. And slowly you just get to know those people, and they get to know you.

I remember you'd responded to the post for the Ohana linkshell on Typhon - if you do have a decent connection for the JP data centre, they are a really lovely group of people. I was fortunate to get invited to one of the FCs very early in my FFXIV experience, and they've been great.

[Ssmiley_Bjakkzz]

Hello nice see you again!
Yes when theres no bite i move on for possible make out my chances elsewhere, just lately it feels lonely

[Araminta]

Meaningful friendships take time and effort. Send /tells to people in your FC. Be open and honest. Be involved or create conversations that aren't just game based.

Also as you seem to have broken English maybe search for someone that is in your native language.

[Ssmiley_Bjakkzz]

Meaningful friendships take time and effort. Send /tells to people in your FC. Be open and honest. Be involved or create conversations that aren't just game based.

Also as you seem to have broken English maybe search for someone that is in your native language.

I dont think you understand the point Amarita but let me explain once so you understand if you find my " broken english " difficult, that im talking about to get friends ingame to play together when i login instead playing solo all the times.
I understand being new to an FC or group people have to get used to you and so, but when theres no one thats interested or even talking then things are much harder for me to even start something.
I ask, send tell, make conversations, greet and gets nothing back.
Its just ive always been careful to join an FC that claims to be social and fun, yet they all end up being silent and almost anti-social in my experiences and worse so i left.
But then again i sit myself back to ground Zero and no idea what when wrong.

[HyoMinPark]

Making friendships is a really difficult thing to do, and it takes a lot of tries to finally find one that can be fulfilling to both people involved for some. I personally think it goes beyond just asking people to run dungeons together from time to time, or speaking actively in FC chat.


The easiest way I’ve found to make friends in this game is to find people that have mutual interests—a lot of my friends are into raiding, for example; or they play BRD, so we can relate there. Some like to farm EX primals; some like to queue in randomly to content for fun (e.g., my best friend and I like to do random Raid Roulettes late at night to see if we get any fun parties, or just to get some of the Alexander floors again—I also have a friend who likes to run Orbonne Monastery with me just to see if we get that meme party). The more you have in common with someone, the easier it will be for you to become friends with them. Especially in the context of playing a video game together—enjoying the same types of content means that you’ll have more opportunities to play together.

That being said, though friendships take a lot of effort to find and maintain, if they are meant to happen, they will happen. You cannot force a friendship with someone; some people make better acquaintances than they do friends, and some people are better to just let go. So one really has to find a balance between actively trying to form friendships through doing stuff together with a person, and also allowing the friendship to flourish naturally and not in a forced way.


All you can do is keep trying. Eventually, I’m sure you’ll find a person that you can call a good friend.

[Thoosa]

Hi, I’m on Lich and have been in a FC for a while and have made friends there who I do roulette and other stuff with.

Also I picked up quite a few friends doing Savage in PF.

So it definitely can be done, it just takes time.

[Ssmiley_Bjakkzz]

Thanks guys for support ♥
Ye ill keep this together and stay positive