Did you guys even tried the quest yet?
The dungeon items are fairly easy to get, its not a grind like 2k nexus light.
The Desynth item are pretty easy to get and even levels your desynth pretty easy. (you dont need to invest a shitload of money for it) also ask other ppl to desynth you items, they will do it for free or in exchange for desynth something they cant.
Crafting the 3 star items arent that hard too, just find someone who will craft it for you and maybe pay them for it. (On our server there are ppl offering there service for a lil fee)
To be honest, that's the best and easiest (beside creating the first weapon) step from all until now. Somehow i get the feeling that ppl just dont want to cooperate with other players. Stop playing a "MMO" if its a problem.
Oh the funniest part was helping First Timers through content for 100 Soldiery Bonus :3
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