Sleep related white mage question.
I set up a sleep macro long ago after first getting Repose, which has a party text saying not to attack the purple marked enemy, and have used it when there are 3 or more mobs and no one else sleeping. The macro marks the slept enemy with the Enemy to Bind mark so it's easier to spot. It was never an issue until last night I got with a group, and someone says don't use sleep unless tank marks an enemy, and tank agreed because they swap between enemies on rotation to keep aggro. I told them that sleep is needed when damage is high and healer has to burn through MP like crazy or else I will run out of MP like what happened to me twice my first time doing Brayflox as a healer and popping ether, though luckily no one died as mob and boss died right on time, and that you can still do your rotation, just don't do it on the slept enemy. You don't need to get aggro on a slept enemy, and the rotation in question does not involve AOEs that wake slept enemies because I've played Paladin.
So what is the consensus on sleeping? None of the other parties I've been with had an issue with it.