So did any of you find love yet?
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So did any of you find love yet?
Has any marriage in FFXIV actually lasted longer than a few months at most?
It's not truly an FFXIV marriage without a spicy divorce and your house getting auto demolished at the end, or spicy drama in limsa shout chat.
I had one that lasted over 2 years. It was the best 2 years I've had with this game. I've been hoping for another like it but it seems like it was a fluke :(
Character name: Pizza Roll
Server: Phantom
Willing to transfer? Prefer not to, but we will see
Personal Interests: Gaming, Anime & Manga, Dogs & Cats, Gposes
Play schedule: Usually night-time (after 23pm) or randomly in day-time (smart working so i might be afk in the afternoon)
What kind of gamer are you: I've been hardcore for a while, now i'm a casual/social gamer
Character Gender: female atm
IRL Gender: male
IRL Age: 30
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Kinda, yes. I prefer females chars but if you're playing a male char i don't mind
Character Race: Miqo
Preferred Race: Miqo/Au'ra
Main class?: Used to be main GNB for years, now i switched to SAM for 6.4
Dislikes: People who dislike jokes, i don't trust them lmao
Goals for the game: Just to enjoy some quality time and have fun
Goals for the marriage union: I honestly don't even care about marriage itself, i'm looking for someone to play with and enjoy time together.
Etc: Like i said i'm mostly looking for a partner to spend time with, marriage or not idc.
If we get along everything can happen!
I also pretty much enjoy other games as well from time to time (Random co-ops, League of Legends, Overwatch 2, etc), so we can hang out on something else than ff anytime if you want!
Anime obsessed-
Ask me to watch something together and most likely will be a yes.
If you're just looking for glamour/mount marriage i'm the wrong person.
Peace o7
Feel free to add me on disc: aki4830
I had one that lasted for 7 years...not in FFXIV tho.
For some reason, in general, people in FFXIV want to escape reality and mostly are not looking to create meaningful bonds or contacts with long term potential.
IRL i am a 27yo male and i feel like a 60yo male looking for someone to chat for more than one day in a party with people looking for fun lol
It is what it is.
Server: Goblin (on Crystal)
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: I like cats, art, and playing FFXIV, I also play other games (horror, and World of Warcraft). I like listening to music, watching movies. I also have friends I hang out with.
Play schedule: Daily so far (I did just come back from a long Hiatus).
What kind of gamer are you: I do some minor role-play (nothing sexual), I am friendly and I like to converse and make friends. I also love helping others. I do have an FC in the works. I need one more signature to finalize.
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really
Character Race: Miq'ote
Preferred Race: Miqu'ote (crushing hard on G'raha Tia)
Main class?: WHM
Dislikes: Transphobes, bigotry.... crimes against humanity (not the game to be clear. actual crimes against humanity).
Goals for the game: I am a completionist.
Goals for the marriage union: Compatibility. Respecting and creating boundaries.
Etc: I am LGTBQIA+. I use they/them pronouns in real life. I am 27 and no minors!!
I quite literally just want to get that platinum mount as the person I was meant to eternally bond with doesn't want to anymore :')
Server: Phoenix, Light
Willing to transfer?: No.
Character Gender: Male
Character Race: Viera
Preferred Race: Miqo'te, viera, au'ra males are all good
Goals for the marriage union: Getting that mount
Dm me ingame and I'll give you my discord. Don't want it out for the whole world to see lol
Server:dymaris Hali I think idk lol North America
Willing to transfer? For the right person
Personal Interests:video gaming, watching movies, taking the dog on a walk, making friends.
Play schedule: Monday thru Friday 5pm-12am, weekends whenever
What kind of gamer are you:casual
Character Gender:male hroth
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?i prefer a female irl
Character Race:hroth
Preferred Race:any
Main class?:BLM
Dislikes: liars, cheaters, abusers
Goals for the game:have fun
Goals for the marriage union:true love maybe?
If interested my discord is EmrysdaLost#0575
Etc:
I really feel like this game could strongly benefit from cross World/DC marriage. Why can't it be a thing?
That could be a thing but there is one problem with it. That "Ring"
Ring has ability to teleport you to where your partner at, it saves gil. If you do cross World/DC marriage, then that ring will not work and that would take away that benefit. But if that ring does work like that in Cross World/DC, it can cause alot of issues.
Never giving up!! (/・ω・)/
Server: Siren (Aether DataCenter)
Willing to transfer? Only after knowing well my partner and if its really necessary.
Personal Interests: Music (from all around the world), staying healthy, games (well duh xD) and languages, since I teach Spanish and Japanese :3 So anime and chill ftw, hehe
Play schedule: Nights at CST (varies depend on workload)
What kind of gamer are you: Mostly casual, but always ready to lend a helping hand. :3
Character Gender: Male (also male IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? In game idm, but I'd rather meet a IRL lady
Character Race: Lalafell
Preferred Race: Another Lalafell would be nice but also idm other races
Main class?: RDM, but I have PLD, AST, WHM, SAM and DNC to kill stuff :3
Dislikes: Lies, ghosting and condescension
Goals for the game: Have fun, kill stuff, get pretty things and mess around a lot
Goals for the marriage union: To know a nice person to have fun with, laugh a lot, have a cute IG wedding and, after having all that fun, finally meet IRL to strengthen our bonds and maybe... well... when we get there we'll for sure talk about it, no rush
Etc: I have the strong believe that gamer women are the most fun and caring of all!!, why? Because we share the same hobbies!, of course to decide who is cooking on a certain day always depends on who is on what raid (j/k lol) but it would be awesome to have a gamer partner, Nerds FTW!! :3
If interested, my discord is: LordTimmy#2897
Thankies :3
Server: Dynamis - Seraph
Willing to transfer: No, I already have a medium house and looking for LGBT-friendly FC (or creating a new one)
Personal Interests: Deaf, gaymer, introvert, yoga lover (working on returning to the gym too), totally into Asian cultures (BL movie series, yaoi, manga, food, etc), American sign language, etc
Play schedule: Daily evening time; I have a remote job working from home 9 am-5 pm EST
What kind of gamer are you: Casual gaymer
Character Gender: Male IG / Male IRL (35yo)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes, I prefer male/husbando/gaymer IG/IRL
Character Race: Male Viera (Bunboi)
Preferred Race: Bonus points for male hyur/elezen/viera/aura
Main class?: Omni-Healer
Likes: Genuine, caring, fun, and good vibes
Dislikes: Catfishers, fake people, two-faced, liars, and hiding secrets from me
Goals for the game: Hopefully good partner and/or friendships out of the game, love to chat with me in-game and can do Discord (without voice chat since I am deaf) in American sign language (ASL). I would love to meet anyone who knows ASL as well!
Goals for the marriage union: Perks of teleporting, wedding items, and glam out of the platinum wedding package. I would love some quality time together within in-game and out-of-game. If it ended up being more serious in-game leading into an IRL relationship, I am open to it but no rush. However, I am a uke/bottom in the relationship.
Etc: Be nice, be yourself around me, and be open-minded. I love to tell some dirty jokes and such like~
Discord: snowhti_fleurdelis
Server: Sargatanas
Willing to transfer? unfortunately not! i got a house which we can share if you like :)
Play schedule: my timezone is gmt -3 (brazil) and i play a lot (afternoon-night).
What kind of gamer are you: depends on what my rl allows me :D i wish i could play all day tho.
Character Gender: Female (22 year-old Female IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Long haired bois appreciated, if its a miqote i'll fall in love instantly lol
Character Race: Miqote
Preferred Race: Miqote
Main class?: Healer (WHM/SGE) but im focusing on leveling everything atm
Goals for the game: get everything to lvl 90 and finish msq (just finished hw) and play for yEARS
Goals for the marriage union: glamour (mostly tbh) and someone to play with :D would love to hunt together and do roulettes, or even farm stuff together!
Disclaimer (Please Read!):
- i dont VC, irl busy. sorry! :) will respond on discord or in game chat tho.
- also, im not interested in irl romance. lets keep things in game pls. also, i dont rp.
- i might migrate into your fc if you are in one! mine has too much drama. lol.
hmu on discord or steam!
discord - aureate.
steam - 371463184
UPDATE: happily married now. to all the others, thanks for reaching out. :)
aure loves you, aiden!
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Ironically my in game wife and I have lasted about 10 months now. She is with someone IRL and has a child. I'm single by choice IRL. We have a really good friendship. We both understand not to cross each others boundaries in regards to romance IRL. Marriage is possible in game as long as both parties understand the expectations and respect them.
*Edit
RIP phone post
That seems to be the nature of things here though. Asking up front really seems like you're asking to find a stalker or someone creepy, but even that aside... it's just kind of hard to set emotional boundaries. I mostly just want the glams and mount but I wouldn't mind making a new friend but... I just feel like the type of friend you'd be asking for in this scenario wouldn't be healthy.
Server: Tonberry
Willing to transfer? Yes, only within the elemental DC
Personal interests: Singing, listening to music, watching youtube and sleeping
Play Schedule: GMT +8 from 7pm on weekdays. Free on weekends.
What kind of gamer are you? Super casual. I like venue hopping and love Gposing
Player gender: Female
Character gender: F
Character race: Currently Miqo
Preferred race: Male Miqo/Au Ra or Viera. I only want an IRL M player so sorry as it matters to me. :)
Main class: WHM
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes I do.
Dislikes: Guys that are overly clingy and expects me to login 24/7 at their beck and call.
Goals for the game: Getting a house and deco my house with my IG partner. Visiting different cafes and opening my own venue nx time.
Goals for the marriage: I hope to find someone with good gposing skills as i love gposing and am fairly good at it and wanna learn to be better! Wanna take couple pics with my partner, EB and have a house. Only looking for an IG relationship for now.
Etc: I prefer to take things one step at a time to get to know the person first, but there needs to be similar interest i.e gposing/venues/fashion before i can be interested as these hobbies are important to me. I don't mind trying out new things like raiding next time when i find the right person.
Discord: ariaaa#5053
Edit: I found The One :)
Looking for an in-game partner & FF14 buddy to play the game with!
Server: Odin (Light)
Willing to transfer: I have a personal plot and FC plot on Odin, so nope!
Personal interests: Game development, streaming, content creation.
Play schedule: I play the game religiously, so you can find me online almost every day. It's an addiction at this point...
What kind of gamer are you? While I'm an extremely active player, I tend to lean more towards the casual side of things. I do love to grind levels and other content in-game, and I wouldn't say no to raiding with a static if the opportunity ever presents itself!
Character gender: Female.
Real gender: Male.
Character race: Miqo'te.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character: Not at all!
Preferred race: I'm fine with any!
Preferred gender: Female.
Main job: I'm leveling every job to level cap, so I can play every role. My go to's per role are: Paladin (tank), White Mage (healer), Ninja (melee), Bard (ranged) and Red Mage (caster)
Dislikes: People who are flakey or ignore me and then message back and act like they never read my last message. People who promise stuff, but then don't commit to said promise. People who act like jerks for no discernible reason. People who complain too much.
Goals for the game: Hitting level cap on all of my jobs and finding an active group of friends to run all sort of content with for fun!
Foals for the marriage union: To find a loving partner for my WoL, since it can get pretty lonely out there when saving the world.
Contact: I'm online most of the time, so don't be afraid to message me when you see me online! My WoL's name is Reocy Maevyn. We can add each other on Discord if we hit it off ^^
Server: Dynamis - Seraph
Willing to transfer: No, I already have a medium house and looking for LGBT-friendly FC (or creating a new one)
Personal Interests: Deaf, gaymer, introvert, yoga lover (working on returning to the gym too), totally into Asian cultures (BL movie series, yaoi, manga, food, etc), American sign language, etc
Play schedule: Daily evening time; I have a remote job working from home 9 am-5 pm EST
What kind of gamer are you: Casual gaymer
Character Gender: Male IG / Male IRL (35yo)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes, I prefer male/husbando/gaymer IG/IRL
Character Race: Male Viera (Bunboi)
Preferred Race: Bonus points for male hyur/elezen/viera/aura
Main class?: Omni-Healer
Likes: Genuine, caring, fun, and good vibes
Dislikes: Catfishers, fake people, two-faced, liars, and hiding secrets from me
Goals for the game: Hopefully good partner and/or friendships out of the game, love to chat with me in-game and can do Discord (without voice chat since I am deaf) in American sign language (ASL). I would love to meet anyone who knows ASL as well!
Goals for the marriage union: Perks of teleporting, wedding items, and glam out of the platinum wedding package. I would love some quality time together within in-game and out-of-game. If it ended up being more serious in-game leading into an IRL relationship, I am open to it but no rush. However, I am a uke/bottom in the relationship.
Etc: Be nice, be yourself around me, and be open-minded. I love to tell some dirty jokes and such like~
Discord: snowhti_fleurdelis
Let’s try this again, it’s been awhile since I posted an ad
Server: Balmung (Crystal)
↳ Willing to transfer? Possibly, we’ll have to see how things go.
Play schedule: Usually in the late night hours PST, but sometimes not.
↳ What kind of gamer are you: Midcore, tend to teeter on the casual side for FFXIV.
Character Gender: Female
↳ Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I don’t see why this would matter, it’s a fantasy game where we can be anything we want to be
Character Race: Au Ra & Draconic
Preferred Race: No preference! Aya is rather open minded.
Main class?: SMN/RDM
Goals for the game: At the moment, I’m saving up for a house and gradually leveling my remaining classes up. I’d love to make more friends as well, I attend social events often such as Art Parties & RP venues~
Goals for the marriage union: I do happen to enjoy roleplaying, I would love to have someone to develop alongside Ayane. You’ll find she’s quite the character! However, it’s alright if you aren’t open to roleplaying together too. I would love to be able to run MSQ and content together! Also if you aren’t opposed, I would love to be able to commission art of the (future) happy couple
Etc: Do feel free to reach out to me on Discord my username is concubi, just give me a heads up about being from the forums.
First time posting here. hopefully with some luck.
Server: Exodus (Primal)
Willing to transfer? No. (Part of an Fc and Friends play on Exodus)
Personal Interests: Games, Movies & Shows, Music, Tech, History, Culture. amongst other things that could be explored through chatting with me.
Play schedule: Most of the time, I am awake during the night. (EU player here)
What kind of gamer are you: Enthusiast type of gamer.
Character Gender: Female IG (Male IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Somewhat do. If for just Rp then it doesn't matter if the Player isn't a female like their char. but if it goes beyond the game, for a more personal partnership then it matters if the player is Female.
Character Race: Viera - Rava Clan
Preferred Race: Hyur (Female. All clans) Elezen (Female. All clans) Miqo'te (Female. All clans) Viera (Female. All clans) Au Ra (Female. All Clans)
Main class?: Doesn't matter.
Dislikes: Trolls, A-holes. Dishonest people. Disloyal people. Pushy people.
Goals for the game: Going through the MSQ (because of IRL issues I had to take a long break from when I started playing in 2020 ) and getting myself a house.
Goals for the marriage union: Roleplay, the long term obviously. Exploring new things, creating/living the story for our characters, and evolving them. Playing the game, have fun. And if possible an outside game friendship or more.
Etc: Feel free to reach out to me on Discord: EnigmaBeaver™ ( or this new naming scheme of theirs: enigmabeavertm ) Just let me know you are from the forums and willing to answer a few questions. and be kind, and respectful. hope to hear from you soon, Fellow seeking soul.
Server: Twintania (Light)
Willing to transfer?: No, I have an fc I wish to stay in.
Personal Interests: Reading fiction, gamming, talking with friends etc.
Play schedule: Evenings and weekends mostly. Busy seasons can occur though.
What kind of gamer are you: A casual gamer though I enjoy many aspects of ffxiv. I like to collect for glams, decorate, gpose and rp, but I also dap in hunting fate bosses and run deep dungeon content ^^
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: No, I do not mind.
Character Race: Lalafell.
Preferred Race: Any.
Main class?: Scholar.
Dislikes: Dishonesty.
Goals for the game: Chatting with people and have fun going through content with others ^^
Goals for the marriage union: I am not seeking a partner, this is mostly for the glam/mount, however, making a new friend is welcomed if it happens.
Etc: I can be found on discord: .edir , feel free to send a dm ^^
Alright! I'm giving this a shot, let's see ^^
Server: Sagittarius (Chaos)
Willing to transfer: Yes, if I find the right person!
Personal Interests: Playing pc/tabletop games, anime, movies, art, outdoor acitivies
Play schedule: Afternoons/Evenings
What kind of gamer are you: I'm rather chill, I don't care much for the result as long as we have fun, isn't that what games are for in the end? :)
Character Gender: M (24)
Real Gender: M
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Uh... yes. I'd be rather if a girl I'm talking with is a girl :D
Character Race: Hrothgar
Preferred Race: Your character is your choice, that's the most amazing thing ^^
Main class?: CONJ/ PALA
Dislikes: Arrogant people and elitists
Goals for the game: Have fun and meet some nice people
Goals for the marriage union: I understand most people here are looking for someone just to get some mogs or whatever, but I am in here to find someone who I can spend my time with, get to know each other, and give it a shot together ^^. There are cool stories out there about people who met ingame and then found themselves in real life, now that would be a great story to tell one day, wouldn't it?
etc: If you don't catch me ingame, my discord is "reddyreddson", don't be shy, I'm looking forward to meet you ^^