Why you can't kick people in combat?

I don't like part where have to wait so many minutes before can kick them. Had duty start and guy instantly logged out and we couldn't kick him think for 5 minutes.

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Originally Posted by Awha

In truth I do not understand why how I treat others is even a concern of others. Cause the reality is I doubt many really care much about others outside of their personal scope or think how their actions may negatively impact those around them in the future.

:P

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I hope you do eventually learn to because all I see is that you are reinforcing your strong self belief that nobody cares that much because you currently dont.

Stay safe

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Originally Posted by Vahlnir

Just...let this one go. Trust me, it's for the best. Having had this sort of debate with them before it's really not worth the headache it induces.

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I dont mind. To their credit at least they were open about having some form of disorder spectrum and engaged in somewhat regular commentary.

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Originally Posted by Izar_Chillen

I dont mind. To their credit at least they were open about having some form of disorder spectrum and engaged in somewhat regular commentary.

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I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

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Originally Posted by Imora

I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

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I dont have a problem with discussing it with the poster is what I meant. It also bugs me when I see people seemingly gloating about being shit to others.

I also understand your situation . I myself have struggled with varying degrees of personality disorder for many years. There was a point in my life not so long ago that I nearly lost everything including my home and my life. Despair is a terrible thing , but nothing is worse than pity and self loathing and I swam in it.

You're like me regarding keeping my self away when its a better idea to do so. I would rather not be an arse to others either , and I could if I didn't monitor myself become extremely aggressive if agitated by menial things, especially when I was sleep deprived which happened a lot to me.


It took a very amazing person to show me that I was worth something and she helped me climb out of the hole I was in. She passed away last year but she will always be there to help me in my thoughts.

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Originally Posted by Imora

I have problems with it.

Crutching on disorders bothers me. Had a FC leader that claimed a disorder and jumped on anyone that disagreed with them. About ANYTHING.

I have bipolar disorder myself. I don't use it as an excuse when I'm having an incident that affects others, I accept my consequences. It takes considerable effort sometimes but I can, in fact, manage to not do something that affects others when my moods swing.

If I'm feeling particularly asocial, I avoid people. Id rather avoid people than be an ass to them.

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That is the thing I do not use it as an excuse I accept my consequences of my actions I just do not care if my actions have a negative impact on random people around me. Sure if it is not an inconvenience to me I will be helpful but the moment it becomes inconvenient for myself or those around me well yeah I will do what leads to the best/ more enjoyable outcome.

Not wanting to conform to a social norm or status quo is not using it as a crutch I welcome the consequences of my actions I do not do something I will regret or get upset if I get in trouble I stand by my actions. Generally speaking I just do not by my "disorder" as a problem that needs fixing I go to therapy but I am happiest when I accept who and what I am and not trying to fit in with others.

I mean by in large generally speaking I am not considered a harm to others mainly because I value my own amotomy and my own sense of self preservation is paramount. Though as a joke with my therapist if murder ever becomes legal they best run. :P

End of the day my value my own self and what makes me happy over others I welcome this makes me a "bad" person the eyes of many and I am okay with that. Sure I do not have many friends because of my mindset but I am okay with the view I have.

What happened to the days of playing a game as a game and having fun. All of you are stressed for no reason. Everyone needs to chill and be laid back lol

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Why you can't kick people in combat?

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Answer:

If it can be abused or misused..it will be.

Lalafel players all have some type of dark secret behind their ears it seems.

Allow us to go, penalty-free, 5 minutes into the duty's countdown. We shouldn't be forced to do more than giving groups a fair chance.
If there's not enough progress made in 5 minutes to make us want to stay, then let us go free.