So Duty Roulette drops me into Haukke Manor, normal, as a MCH. The rest of the party is a premade consisting of an ARC, a CNJ, and a GLA. None of them are level-synced. I can foresee how this is going to go, but it doesn't really bother me. Everyone needs to start somewhere, I guess, leveling, and all that.
Of course I'm pulling aggro on almost every pull. Even when I switch targets when I pull 1, it doesn't help too much, since even when the groups are down to 1 mob, the GLA still keeps losing aggro to me. Honestly, it doesn't bother me too much, since I can understand that tanking without access to your job stone sucks. I've experienced it myself.
So this continues until we're near the second boss, and I use the LB -- which I've already used once, on the first boss -- on a group of mobs. And GLA starts bitching at me, claiming that I "fuck up DPS", and that if I'd just attack the mobs he's attacking, I wouldn't be peeling mobs from him. I don't bother pointing out that this is what I've been doing ever since they actually bothered to mark it, nor have they actually mentioned that they'd like me to do this.
Naturally, it ended with me being vote-kicked. I never once used a shred of abusive language towards any of them, and the only comment I made about their playstyles was saying the GLA could stand to use Flash a bit more.
It's so frustrating. I can be the nicest, friendliest, most helpful player anyone's ever met, but having to deal with people like these just drain all my patience. If they'd just spoken up and told me to attack specific mobs, without being assholes about it, I would've done it without a single complaint. But they just had to be nasty. On the bright side, I didn't have to deal with them anymore and since they very nicely left me all their names, I got to make a report.
