This also applies to tanks telling the DPS how to do their jobs when they themselves have never played a single other class.
Also, as a BRD, I have only ever kited a single mob around if I deemed the tank was not geared enough to tank more than 2 at a time. (This was usually only in lowbie dungeons w/ PLD/GLA's) OR if the tank died and it was the only way to save everyone else. Sorry but at that point it becomes live or die. If my kiting and fighting saves us and the melee cant hit, suck it up and deal with it, atleast you'll have lived.
