For a Dear, Dear Certain Someone

No I mean what he said. I just wanna know Bastok's response. That can't really backfire, can it? Or at least the mere mention of me. I just want the evidence! D:

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Originally Posted by Leira_Raine

No I mean what he said. I just wanna know Bastok's response. That can't really backfire, can it? Or at least the mere mention of me. I just want the evidence! D:

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I'm not really sure why you're looking for a response, as it can be seen as goading him. Would be better if you just let it all die on its own

I don't think he can answer here either <_< pretty sure he's banned

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2gwclrc&s=5

The comment above his is literally what the topic was about and he somehow turns it into his own issue. The conversation goes reaaaallly downhill after that, but I'm sure this is enough. He at a point started asling how could people possibly not know about him, and boasted about how his videos have so many views.

Edit: As people have said ._. I too will just shut up about it. I was just baffled that he decided to make it public and make himself seem like the victim.

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Originally Posted by Vilhem

I'm not really sure why you're looking for a response, as it can be seen as goading him. Would be better if you just let it all die on its own

I don't think he can answer here either <_< pretty sure he's banned

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Vil makes a very good point.

If the person commenting on your blog is indeed the same one who has been harassing you, and if that character hasn't also been banned yet he can still probably see everything you are posting here.

I wouldn't go out of your way to find things he is saying to other people, and I certainly wouldn't do so quite this openly, it just validates his obsession. He doesn't care about the nature of the attention, he is still validated by it.

The absolute best thing you can do is ignore him. Document any time he tries to contact you, but don't respond, and tell your friends not to respond either.

It's also probably a pretty good idea to let this thread die. This type of venting is probably better done in a more private venue.

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Originally Posted by Keith_Dragoon

I got yo back Talia, gonna have to make a character on Hyperion So I can crush the stalker and do some stalking of my own on the side! :3

Also everything that Dav posted I agree with, these things can start off as annoyances but if not handled and the person gets too "involved" with or without your help things could get even worse. Do everything you can to document every interaction attempt he makes and build yourself a case. Have your friends do so as well. Submit it all to SE and if the situation grows even more out of hand more extreme methods are recommended.

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I know you won't want to hear this, but hurting an abuser will likely just cause him or her to run off and hurt people even more. If he has the blame problem I mentioned, then he will likely go and hurt someone else even worse just because it will make him feel better. The answer is to get abusers banned, not be a vigilante. Even if he deserves it, we need to build the case and let the mods handle it. If they don't respond, a restraining order from a US Judge can be applied to social networks.

This situation reminds me of the movie "cape fear"

also the movie "finding nemo"

I'm sorry to hear what you're going through op, but generally cutting some one out of your life is the only way to deal with things like this. Its a bit harsh, but you'll both be happier for it. Just deny every avenue he has to contact you. Have your friends /blist him, ignore him when given the option and never respond. Even posting this on the forums is enough to goad him on because you're giving him an indication that hes bothering you. Eventually, he'll grow bored and find some other poor soul to torment.

Just picture him as a bad memory, and soon enough he'll become one. Eventually you'll forget he ever existed.

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Originally Posted by Dav

I know you won't want to hear this, but hurting an abuser will likely just cause him or her to run off and hurt people even more. If he has the blame problem I mentioned, then he will likely go and hurt someone else even worse just because it will make him feel better. The answer is to get abusers banned, not be a vigilante. Even if he deserves it, we need to build the case and let the mods handle it. If they don't respond, a restraining order from a US Judge can be applied to social networks.

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You took my comment WAY too seriously >.>;

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Originally Posted by Req

I thought it was Craig.

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It might as well be!

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Originally Posted by Dav

If they don't respond, a restraining order from a US Judge can be applied to social networks.

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I was going to mention this as well. Seems I'm not the only person who knows a few things about this type of protection. Nice work providing the info Dav. :)