Guys, whats your tolerance level?

Ehhhh... It depends on the day I am having. I'm all for helping new players and I do take the time out to teach things and what not, but sometimes bad days get in the way or something just rubs you the wrong way where you know that you have to leave or it will get ugly quickly.

I've left more this month (Twice) then I have in the past ... 1 of them I was called names and the other was an SV where the DPS just ran up as soon as the bubble dropped and aggro'ed all three mobs and died ... (I really really was in a foul mood and shouldn't have queue'd so I left because I knew that if I stayed I would have raged hard and I didn't want to do that.)

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Originally Posted by NamiNamai

My tolerance goes out the window when:

• Someone is being rude to the other players
• The tank thinks he is superman and repeatedly faceplants even when people say they can't keep up with the pulls.
• Tanks who pull massive mobs with two party members that have crap AoEs.
• Healers who think it's their job to stand there and look pretty while alt+tabbed on reddit.
• DPS who think they can tank.
• DRK who think they are DPS.
• Healers who don't heal or who spam their highest heal constantly.
• Anyone who's rude in chat/obnoxious when there's a wipe without damn good reason.
• Players who go balls to the walls expecting everyone to know their playstyle and who get irritated when they get called on it or the party can't keep up.
• People who troll dungeons. Hate that crap.

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Mine's pretty much this, entirely.

Pretty much for me it depends on a few things:
1. Does the one(s) making mistakes listen at all?
2. If not, and, usually when I'm healer, can I carry through the mistakes? (although even then im usually cursing them out under my breath irl)
3. What is their attitude?

These are the most important factors to my tolerance level with other players in this game, with #2 mostly just being for whether i think continuing the run would be worth it at all or not.

If they refuse to learn, then I leave and they can go shit up someone else's run.

tolerance level? it is kinda high on low level dungeons i don't expect player know there class well.
But if ur 50 or 60 and is a healer cast regen while pulling mob make me mad.
Then i start wonder how did that guy got 50... Fate nonstop or just haveing no clue what they do.

I have high tolerance. Always, even if i screamed in my head, in the game i try to give some advice when i can.
But the limit of my tolerance downed to zero the other day in Alexander 2.

This was in DF and there was 2 new people (DPS only). Ok, no problem, i explained in english (which is not my native language, french here) , try to motivate the group (emotes and some encouraging speech) ...

Easy turn for DPS... except when there is THIS guy, you know, the guy who ragequit after one wipe, and if he didn't leave, he undermines all the works that party made.
But the worse, was when he started to bash french people, that was our fault etc ... and especially me (just because I was the one who spoke the most i guess).

As a good, kind and patient player, I just hate that and i reported him.

Aslong as new players show a willingness to learn i'll normally stay till it's done, if not well goodluck getting another tank.

My tolerance is 2. Two tries. I don't have that much time for playing lately, with people that just doesn't bother explaining, call me elitist but at the 2nd wipe I ragequit. (Trial roulette, dragon's neck and Chrysalis way too much... Luckily Steps of Faith is so nerfed I can just faceroll-DPS the things. )

Whenever I see a new player message, I take my bothering of telling them strat. If we wipe once. I take it as normal and tell them where the failure was and what happened, if we wipe 2, It's a lost cause and I just refuse myself to keep loosing time.

Honestly, wiping 15 times in the second boss of Aurum Vale and those things are not my way to enjoy FFXIV, sorry.

I main healers in on every MMO or game that have healing in general.

So I decided to roll with my BRD with my husband who usually rolls as a dps. So we que up for Stone Vigil and we got a Drk and a SCH.

Scholar was prioritizing dpsing but not healing as the tank is always almost dead and my husband aggro off the tank.

He stood in front of the healer waiting for his heals but instead he let him die. >.>

Tank starts to say run to me if you aggro off (which he did) and the healer said he was too far away to heal (even though he was RIGHT in front of him).


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Scholar proceeds to say that Tank>Dps. The tank agrees. This would make sense but the problem with his logic? Underhealing the tank and placing eos on sic (which could have helped with aoe healing)

I told him that as a healer your priority is to make sure everyone is alive, not just the tank.

Tank and healer tag team and called me stupid. Fired back that it isn\\'t our fault you can't keep aggro and you refuse to heal.

We cleared the dungeon somehow and left immediately. Remembered why I rolled as a healer in the first place, my tolerance level for healers that think tanks are our main focus and not the entire group >.<