If you are the type of poster who is offended at the "play other games" suggestion and view it as anyone "defending" the game rather than just asking a common sense question, perhaps you just need to look inward at your own posting behavior.
I've criticized the game here on numerous occasions on a variety of topics, and have never once had someone tell me to play something else. It's how you deliver feedback and your general disposition on the forums. If someone notices a person spending months posting 40-60 times a day via alts about how "trash" FFXIV is, and speaking ill on just about every single aspect of the game - the common sense question is "why do you sub then?" Simple as that.
