Originally Posted by
Ceallach
The fact she didn't say what you said is what made it insulting. It was the same as saying I'm "a retarded piece of trash that can't tell the difference between a goobbue and a rabbit," for example. I realize that it's especially difficult with text-only conversation to watch one's tone, but she is someone who should work harder at that. In the meantime, I will work on not lashing out immediately at rude people.
I was simply trying to point out priorities. As healers, our duty first and foremost is to prevent death. If people die, and it wasn't because they were being silly by standing in a clearly-marked area attack or something, it's probably our fault. That DPS loss is the healer's fault for not healing when he or she should have. Damage output is nice, but because it's so secondary to what we do, it requires teamwork to allow for. If everyone else is doing their jobs well, then sure, blast away. I have no issue with that. But if people don't know the fight or are bad at the game in general, a healer shouldn't bother with attack spells because progression is more important than healer DPS. That's all I was trying to say, and if not for a certain someone's sarcastic reply, it's all I would have said.