To blacklist or not to blacklist

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Originally Posted by Rokien

Also, are you implying that you are boss at ifrit or something?
Did you never die at ifrit?
I'm sure you die all the time on ifrit.
Go do something else with your time....

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i don't make a new excuse each time. You clearly have earned a spot on my mental blacklist. :D

Mission complete ^.^ One down millions to go >:D

[QUOTE=Xakery;544252 I'm not one to hold grudges, [/QUOTE]

Wouldn't blacklisting someone be the very definition of holding a grudge? Don't get me wrong, you pay a monthly fee, same as all of us, so blacklist the hell out of whoever you want too. But, to me, if I had a falling out with someone, and went out of my way to NOT talk to them or hear what they have to say, thats grudge holding. Again, do what ever you want, I just saw that tidbit and couldn't help but chuckle a bit.

Seriously though, please don't b-list me lol :p

Welp looks like your going to have to write down ALL those names ;) jokes on you "Friend List/Blacklist
All friend list and blacklist data will be deleted during the merge."

When somebody have a very big blacklist it means that the problem lies with him and not the other players in this game.

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Originally Posted by Xakery

My linkshell leader said I have too many for our server, but I think if someone makes me mad enough, they earn themselves a spot on my blacklist. Is that such a bad idea? Does anyone else use that feature?
I just think it is fair. I do not discriminate! I blacklist annoying idiots, stupid people that give excuses for everything, and nasty people who have done me wrong. I'm not one to hold grudges, but I want to play this game and not worry about getting that one loser who died at Ifrit twenty times and came up with a new excuse each time.
Is that too far? Does anyone else get blacklist happy? Figured I'd ask to quench my curiosity.

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You are thinking about this matter too hard it's simple if people piss you off to the extent you can't stand being around them anymore or looking at their tells blacklist them.

simple

I don't mean to stir up another fuss, but.

Server merge.

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• Friend List/Blacklist

All friend list and blacklist data will be deleted during the merge.

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'nuff said.

*EDIT: Man, Rokien beat me to it. :< What is this?!*

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Originally Posted by Rokien

Welp looks like your going to have to write down ALL those names ;) jokes on you "Friend List/Blacklist
All friend list and blacklist data will be deleted during the merge."

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Well, thankfully I've taken their names to heart. ^^; A few I will write down Mr. Negativity, but I took a name off my list. The player improved substantially from their Ifrit making lame excuse days. If I find people not to be a waste of my time then they get off. That simple.
I'm not the best, but I learn and try to do better every time. I never make excuses. I admit my faults, and get right back in to whooping @$$ or being an awesome Con, where applicable.

LOL its a game have fun with the excuses, I make excuses all the time, when I leave party, die, anything. Just have fun with it, don't get all butt hurt about it.

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Originally Posted by Biggs

Wouldn't blacklisting someone be the very definition of holding a grudge? Don't get me wrong, you pay a monthly fee, same as all of us, so blacklist the hell out of whoever you want too. But, to me, if I had a falling out with someone, and went out of my way to NOT talk to them or hear what they have to say, thats grudge holding. Again, do what ever you want, I just saw that tidbit and couldn't help but chuckle a bit.

Seriously though, please don't b-list me lol :p

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It's not just for situations where you have a falling out with someone, it's a bit hard to explain. Have you ever ran into someone so stupid that you thought "Damn, it would be nice to blank that person from my FFXIV life."?

If there were some good PvP and you could slaughter them to relieve some of the pressure then yeah I can understand putting up with it, but right now the only effective way to get em is by killing them off in your mind.