One thing WoW did right. /ignore was cross server and affected instance finder group matchmaking.
This is a class specific issue though. Warrior tanks are pretty not-great right now, and I (and several others) agree that they need some quality of life changes to put them on par with Paladin tanks, but this is sort of the wrong thread for that discussion.
So what are you suggesting then? Square Enix can't make tanks play nice or play the way you want them to. It's unfeasible for them to ban "mean players" when they already have their hands full dealing with cheating and scamming. Instead of crying about it, how about you do something to fix the problems you face. I used to run into rude or unskilled healers. Then I made one, and now I both love healing and don't run into that problem nearly as much.
And while we're on the subject of rude and troll tanks, I don't run into them that much. Maybe once or twice since I've begun, and I almost exclusively use the DF for all content that isn't Titan HM and beyond. What I run into more are pissy dps players who get upset when tanks, healers, or other dps are new to fights and need things explained to them. Believe me, ridiculous damage dealers are way more common and more frequent than troll tanks or even troll healers. They just also happen to not be important to most runs whatsoever.
better play with a tank from your FC/LS so they won't leave.
Well, there's not much I can do personally other than give you my word that I either finish the dungeon or I'm one of the last people to leave (my main class is a tank). I may never see the people again and it's impossible for them to talk to me unless we're on the same world, but I know I sure wouldn't want a tank/healer to be rude or suddenly leave, especially when it takes so long to find one. Generally speaking, we're all playing the same game; no need to complicate it for each other. :)
When FFXIV was released, it seemed to me like there was a real shortage of Healers. I was happy to already be lvl.50 WHM. Queues were instanteneous! Now there's plenty of healers and a real shortage of tanks.
I have since taken up the sword & shield and even the 2-handed axe.
Queues... Instantaneous... LOVIN' IT.
I don'T understand why there aren'T more tanks, it'S a really fun class, paladin or warrior. Not to mention you are usually greeted as great champion/hero/celebrity* when you join. It's a great class if you enjoy leadership roles. And maybe this is why there aren'T many tanks considering there can be alot of pressure as a new tank.
-You gotta memorize the map
-Prioritize/Mark the right mobs (When applicable)
-Explain Sub and Main Boss tactics
-Be generally gallant exercising patience
I rarelly have any trouble having talented DPS or Healer**
I don'T know if this is factual or not but, whenever I use the duty*** finder, I always tick "Join Instance in progress" and I click all four language options. I think it does help giving you more chances to join an instance.
I wish there was a way help people of my server only if I choose with the DF. It would help make lasting relationship or create bitter rivalries... Either would do.
*Minus the DUIs
**Kindly Remind a guy called One Way that Cleric Stance in no way improves healing
***Duty means poop
Wow that is good idea OP. Thanks for info, will roll a tank and make some profit.