I agree. I'm also concerned that a lot of people are forgetting that the actual infraction that was cited by GM Wyndallus in his own words was, "The Party Finder is intended to be used for the formation of parties to attempt content. Essentially, that system is in place to help players find other players for duties, raids, map parties, hunts, etc. It is not intended as a social feature, whereas something like the fellowship finder is."
There is nothing in GM Wyndallus' wording that states that the player had inappropriate wording or anything else but their sole infraction was using the other tab of the Party Finder for social purposes, which has been a common practice of RP venues for years without any GM involvement. This isn't about whether it was ERP or 18+ in Wyndallus' own words but simply using the party finder as a social feature. If there was going to be a change in policy about this, SE should have at least warned players of this change in policy and enforcement so that players were aware of this change on enforcement before every being confronted with a GM.
If the sole infraction is using the Party Finder as a social feature, then does that mean that GM Wyndallus will also be punishing those who throw Pride parades, birthday parties, or funeral processions if they use the Party Finder to advertise the event? A distinction also should be forthcoming as to what precisely the "Other" tab is for especially considering that all of the things that Wyndallus' listed have their own tabs in the Party Finder so players need not look at the "Other" tab to find what those things. To me, again, this is beyond weird that it's just now being punished when it's been a longstanding practice without any warning of a change in enforcement from SE, itself.
