Did you tell them it was your sub and you'll play how you want? =P
But seriously, that is really asinine. All of it. I run with the "do what you can do" philosophy on healers and dps. I do get bugged by the healers that sit there healing the tank every few seconds then nothing, but I know it's just me and I don't give anyone crap about it.
However, I'm just baffled at how often people run into this stuff. Maybe I'm just hopelessly optimistic.
