If you are not experiencing any of the issues that the OP is experiencing, I'm glad you're having a good time with Endwalker. I truly mean it. It's frustrating to get disconnected out of the game or repeatedly 2002'ed from the queue until it resets your position, even within the 5 minute grace period. I really hope you never have to experience this.
I had a great two days of Endwalker. But today, I couldn't play at all. It started with my game crashing in a trial. I logged back in within 60 seconds of crashing. The game had to log me out to put me in a 4000 person queue. My party voted to abandon because I was one of the two tanks and the tank queue is particularly ferocious right now.
During my queue, I got 2002'ed at around 3500, which was fine. I requeued easily. At around 2500, I got 2002'ed again, and again, and again, and again, AND AGAIN until the game completely forgot I was in the queue at all. 3 minutes had passed out of the 5 allotted. My new position? 5000. I'm wired to a fiber internet connection, so unfortunately, WiFi is not to blame here.
I got a headache from the ordeal so I'm just going to sleep it off and go back to work tomorrow.
