Same Sex Marriage

Because all of those other thing happen in Japan while this one not

It shouldn't be so much of a problem not allowing same-sex marriages now that there will be male and female versions of every race, unlike 1.0 and XI. At least not for me since I'll be changing to male cat.

Not that I mind same-sex marriage btw, I wanted it before, I don't mind it now. There will still be people that rather play a character gender that doesnt match ther RL one, or is actually gay and just wants to be able to marry the same sex.

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Originally Posted by rina_inverse

Because all of those other thing happen in Japan while this one not

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Last time I checked this is an international game, regardless of where its based out of. Have you noticed how they cater their events around certain parts of the world? So yes they are aware that not every decision can be made based on Japan.

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Originally Posted by Angelas

Last time I checked this is an international game, regardless of where its based out of. Have you noticed how they cater their events around certain parts of the world? So yes they are aware that not every decision can be made based on Japan.

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Yes, but would they care?
No, I dont think so

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Originally Posted by Ralliare

I do hope they realize that out of all the "supported" countries, Japan has probably the least legal support for LGBT. So if they're fine with putting it in then everyone else would be better than fine...

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Least legal support? Hmm, not aware of that, I sometimes think the Japanese are even more open-minded than some North Americans.

Good that they (SE) actually brought it up during the QA session because it is something we all can't run away from and just brush underneath the carpet. I'd say if SE did really introduce same-sex marriage in 2.0, you'd just have to live with it. Just like in real life, homosexuals cannot possibly destroy the world order just by their mere existence...

yes, please

in a game where you can play any gender, I don't see why any sex/race couldn't be married

I just want to add this is probably one issue that hits home for me specifically because I am gay. I never discuss my sexuality in game because quite frankly I am worried about the negative reactions. In my day to day life I live openly and I am very proud of who I am. I am 36 years old and I have fought and fought for equality since I was in High School. I know Square Enix and maybe some of the people playing this game dont understand how important this issue is to a gay player as you have never experienced it in your real life.

This thread is a reflection of the same struggles I avoid in game where I am very careful about revealing too much personal information. If the game is going to accept and appreciate its gay playerbase this issue shouldnt even be AN ISSUE. Its not like they ban signs of affection from gender to gender. You can use any emotive to any gender regardless of your gender, I didnt see that offending or causing any problems in the game. How many people stop to give a scolding to someone who is playing a male character give another male character a hug? Is it really that important? Furthermore the marriage ceremony and people invited would be up to the couple, other than that it wouldnt affect anyone else in the game.

To brush off my compassion about equality in and outside of the game is totally disrespectful. I find much more support for things like this than negative remarks but to see people support not allowing it based purely on outside speculation without any regard for the person playing the game paying their own monthly fee is nonsense and rubbish

I wouldn't have a problem with it but I think they would save themselves a lot of potential hassal by sticking with opposite sex only. FF XIV is a global MMO and everyone has different views on the matter. Personally I don't really see the point in in game marriage anyway. You could always just role play your own wedding if you are really that eager.

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Originally Posted by Angelas

I just want to add this is probably one issue that hits home for me specifically because I am gay. I never discuss my sexuality in game because quite frankly I am worried about the negative reactions. In my day to day life I live openly and I am very proud of who I am. I am 36 years old and I have fought and fought for equality since I was in High School. I know Square Enix and maybe some of the people playing this game dont understand how important this issue is to a gay player as you have never experienced it in your real life.

This thread is a reflection of the same struggles I avoid in game where I am very careful about revealing too much personal information. If the game is going to accept and appreciate its gay playerbase this issue shouldnt even be AN ISSUE. Its not like they ban signs of affection from gender to gender. You can use any emotive to any gender regardless of your gender, I didnt see that offending or causing any problems in the game. How many people stop to give a scolding to someone who is playing a male character give another male character a hug? Is it really that important? Furthermore the marriage ceremony and people invited would be up to the couple, other than that it wouldnt affect anyone else in the game.

To brush off my compassion about equality in and outside of the game is totally disrespectful. I find much more support for things like this than negative remarks but to see people support not allowing it based purely on outside speculation without any regard for the person playing the game paying their own monthly fee is nonsense and rubbish

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I respect your choice
Please respect mine

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Originally Posted by rina_inverse

I respect your choice
Please respect mine

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I dont understand your comment? First of all being gay wasnt my choice, secondly I never told you that you couldnt do anything, so...