Bone Dragon is always tanked in the centre on my DC.
That's how it's done here on Elemental, yes. Apparently the US servers just all fight over it instead.
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I dunno, aggro wars are really one of the few interesting parts of CT raids considering how pruned down tank kits are at level 50.
If you don't want to fight for aggro you could simply turn off stance and let them have it