Guys... this is a Necro post from 2017... just an fyi... not sure who necrod it but I think OG posters might not even read it anymore...
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Guys... this is a Necro post from 2017... just an fyi... not sure who necrod it but I think OG posters might not even read it anymore...
It's not normal for new players no.
But eventually, everyone finds out they've been playing wrong, or poorly, or something.
The joy of a public forum is that it's information still accessible outside it's relevancy to the original poster. Someone else with a similar situation may find this, as such continuing to provide information is helpful to the community.
necromancy is legal in cyrodiil but few will openly admit to practicing it now that the mages guild has banned it
I'll bring up a time when an old FC buddy of mine hit level 70 back during ShB, and needed to run Ala Mhigo. He's a WAR main, and I went ahead and tagged along as a DPS I was leveling. I never grouped with him before, and his tanking was bad. Like really, really bad. The healer in our group was super pissed, and it was tough to defend my FC buddy because what the healer was saying was all true. I tried to defuse the situation by just giving some tips, and big pulls were definitely out of the question. We did make it through, and man the Zenos fight was also rough.
Afterwards, he was really down in spirits. His tanking at that level shouldn't have been that bad, and it was easy for me to recognize the obvious. He had little experience, and everyone he has grouped with just dealt with his tanking.
I brought this up first and foremost to let you know that a player does not need to use ACT to know your damage is lackluster. You play the game enough, and you just know when things are taking too long to kill. You can tell when content is under tuned, or if enrage windows are tight. The second reason is to let you know that my FC buddy pushed passed the criticism from the healer, as tough as it was, and used it as motivation to improve his game. The next time I grouped with him his tanking was vastly improved.
I can't judge the tank who told you your DPS was bad. I wasn't there, and he/she likely has their side of this story as well. Players can be harsh sometimes, and that player might not be a jerk, and could just be having a bad day and is normally much more tolerable. We just don't know. It's the internet. What I can tell you is to not get discouraged. You've picked one of the hardest jobs to play well with BLM. This is a good thing though, because it gives you such a vast plane in which TO improve. You will face bosses who will just make you say, "F...M....L" Again, use this as incentive to get better.
Also, there is no need to run the content that is the level of your BLM. Take no shame in running lower level content to hone your skillset and spell casting. If a fight gives you trouble, stay on it until you are satisfied with your performance. Patience. Practice. Persevere.