Originally Posted by
Chessala
People need to understand that just because THEY have not experienced a behaviour, it doesn't mean it's not happening.
No one minds a good-hearted Dragoon joke or the Dragoon himself running around but imo, griefing is different.
The other day we were in Sophia Ex and people kept dying left and right with the tanks taking turns (cause who needs CDs anyway....). My OH did not die in the first two wipes even once (last man standing). However, on the 3rd try, people started getting salty because my OH was trying to help with positioning.
Soon after, the other healer was actively NOT healing him and people that had no problems stacking before now made a habit out of stacking with us instead of with their partner.
Obviously, he eventually died from that behaviour (vulnerability debuff ->SCH not applying shields to him exclusively and not healing). And then when he used the LB3 and died being locked in place, the joke started how he should stop wiping the floor etc.
This is just one example. It's usually easy to see if a player is just bad or acting on purpose so it's not like anything is being over-interpreted. Cases like that keep being more frequent these days.