I think you're playing with really bad WARs, because:
1. The opening rotation requires 2-4 SEs, before BB even comes into play
2. In Savage X, Y, and Z they should be using SE -> SP beyond their opener, which has 0 enmity multipliers attached
If you'd like to min/max DPS, have the WAR open and swap after FoF runs out. From then on the WAR should be doing nothing but SE -> SP so you'll have 0 aggro issues and you'll also have the incredibly comfy aggro lead the WAR has built up for you. If you have a NIN, you could also have him Shade you and Smoke Screen the WAR if you don't want to have the WAR open. PLD certainly has enmity issues compared to DRK/WAR, but they're not as crippling as people make them out to be, you just have to work around them.
Monk's DK + Divine Veil > Delirium in terms of mitigating the raid damage of Cascade, even with DV's long recast time. The only caveat is you must bring a MNK, which isn't really much of a detriment anymore, especially if you're already bringing a PLD.
