Depending on what you played up to is what is at stake here in XI. Because the only time I've -ever- seen "You need X to get in" was probably when Delve was in the game and probably later down the road with Aegis/O-Chain Paladins. However, those weren't exactly the flood of parties. You could also get into groups a myriad of ways. Another job. Another scapegoat(example I couldn't get into Delve because I didn't have a Delve weapon, but I worked as a Re-Raise bot until I could afford it). Now such things aren't as demanding here in XIV. No one cares what gear you have exactly. At minimum, it's ilvl and at best, it's the ilvl required to beat the content. People only ask for higher ilvl to minimize the difficulty of the content because not a lot of people are 'skilled' enough to handle it as if it came out day one.
As I mentioned and others, if these parties bother you, make your own party. Something takes forever to get into? Make your own party. Don't like the rules of another leader? Make another party. There's so much you can do in gaming if you just 'Take the Initiative'. Except there, there's nothing to take the initiative to.
