I'd say it's really SE's fault as it sucks to be a person on a slower computer/console when people early pull, I'm not excusing the incredibly rude things people say and do about early pullers.. just that if you've got the time it would be really helpful to some people.
I don't play on my slow computer when I want to do hunts, I can only imagine how terrifying it is to try and do hunts as a PS3 player and not be part of the finding group (being part of the finding group is the best plan if you load slow). I can think to say that the content wasn't designed for secondary players in mind, but I suppose you could counter that SE can't design with "what I would like to see" mechanics only and must also design to how players think and are, it was obvious people would like to be part of timed content that "can" (usually) support a lot of players. All player's issues are SE's issues. XD
Anyway.. You should report people threatening you- not waiting isn't overtly nice but being rude is clearly worse.
I did that once lol, we had already waited a few minutes but luckily no one seemed to care except for a few people in the group saying it would have been good to wait extra for the slow loaders. I said sorry, they said its ok - just trying to keep the server happy. Didn't think about ps3 and others till that event, so I tried it on my bad computer- hilarious trying to get any hunts done XD (highly ineffective, good gil waster though).
