Can't speak for pug groups but every static I know with a SMN leaves the first rez to the SMN. It is mana intensive to be rezzing, but if you go OOM you can stand there and replenish mana with no real impact besides things dying slower. If a healer goes OOM rezzing then people die. So, unless it's a wipe why not try to help get people up? Especially if it's a healer. People aren't dying on purpose. They just don't know the fight or aren't paying attention. Express your irritation at the latter and be more patient with the former.
