Problems with SMN Resurrection Spell Usage

[Marianno]

Lately, I've gotten a lot of flack and drama about not using resurrection spell when I play with my SMN job in dungeons from Healers(WHMs) and DPS(MNK,DRG,BLM) and some tanks(PLD). When I play in high end dungeons such as coil t1-t5, extreme/HM primal fights, or simply playing in some dungeons wherethe tank wants to speedrun and pull the entire first half of the dungeon (i.e. brayflox). Everytime, I always have to tell people not to stand in red circles or stand in anything that the boss is casting.

Most recent incident was in Thornmarch/ Titan Extreme. The DPS and the WHM kept on dropping like flies due to plumes. A lot of people were yelling at me and the other SMN to use res and I yelled back saying "DO NOT STAND IN ANYTHING THE BOSS IS CASTING". Upon saying that I follwed up and told them that SMNs lose a lot of MP when casting res because at 50 it cost 798 MP. A lot of MNKs,DRGs, BLMs have even gotten angry at me for not using res when MNKs/DRGs die to garudas wicked wheel in garuda extreme or when BLMs stand there trying to finish their cast and take damage when she jumps and the healer won't heal them. Am I doing something wrong?

Am I wrong for telling them to learn to dodge things and not to stand in red circles or stand in whatever the boss is casting against you because it is never good usually. Everytime this happens, I end up getting dismissed because I refuse to continuously res MNKs/DRGs who can't dodge avoidable mechanics. I also refuse to res BLMs who refuse to stop casting to move out of avoidable AOEs. Am I wrong for this?