Originally Posted by
KalinOrthos
I don't consider myself a bad tank at all, but I tend to pull a bit slower than some of the more reckless tanks. Really not anything out of the ordinary I think, two trash mobs at most, if that. I've never really had a problem, in fact, most players I've run with appreciate it, lets healers throw DPS out. I'm also still getting my feet wet with how DRK goes after being a paladin, with my biggest issue being that I feel so squishy between TBNs, so that's another reason why I pull a bit slowly.
Then there was my last group.
Black Mage kept pulling and pulling and pulling for me. Healer was OoM on a lot of pulls. No diversions to ensure aggro stayed on me. Soon as I ask the black mage to stop pulling for me, she tells me to "pull bigger", my answer to which was no, for the healer reasons. The other DPS chimed in with "dragon being bullied by a potato" (BLM was a lala), which is funny, but still only served to piss me off. Left that group before the second boss of the run.
You want to see why more players aren't healers and tanks? Because of players like this BLM.