Eh, I mostly heal (and Bard occasionally). I dps whenever I can and I've never had anyone tell me I was doing anything wrong (such as not doing enough damage). I think most people just don't appreciate it when healers stand around doing nothing. Sorry if you've had bad experiences, but I find it hard to believe that they are the norm. I won't get mad or kick healers that don't dps, anyways, as there are worse things than a smooth/slower run. Then again, when I use DF I totally expect to adjust to the party I get paired up with.
